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could you live my life as it is right now?

Anonymous
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  • im 19 df is 21
  • we have no car until i get a lisence(working on it)
  • we lost our jobs right before i found out i was pregnant(i got pregnant in between depo shots so we didnt plan ds at all)
  • had to move back in with our parents
  • cant find new jobs been looking for 2 years
  • have to move into a trailer when we finally do get jobs
  • we do get to keep my 32 in flat screen and my android
  • we wont have any furniture other then the stuff in my bedroom
  • df has to pay $300 in child support every month to his ex
  • ds will be the only one who eats some days 
  • me and df havent gotten new clothes/shoes in a year and a half
  • only one of has has a hs diploma, the other is studying for the GED but it costs to much
  • we would only be getting $400 a month if df gets a job with his brother

so could you live my life? 

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:00 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:02 PM

bump

cueballsmom
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:03 PM
Except for the GED and child support, I did live your life. Then it got better.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:03 PM
Why on earth did you get knocked up?
Mommototwo
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:03 PM
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Nope. I'd be working my rump off to find a way out of that. Good luck hun.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:05 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

Why on earth did you get knocked up?

i got pregnant in between depo shots, ds wasnt planned at all

singlemom1208
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:05 PM
No. I'd be working my ass off to get out of that situation.
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Jeni1124
by Bronze Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:05 PM
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I could...but I wouldn't just accept it all as if I could do nothing about it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:06 PM


Quoting Mommototwo:

Nope. I'd be working my rump off to find a way out of that. Good luck hun.

we are trying really hard to get out of this....it sucks when the towns we have around us has no jobs available....df has even tried to go into LA to get a job...no one ever calls back

ctfirsttimemom
by Silver Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:07 PM
Nope! I'm so thankful I made different choices. I hope things get better. We've had a couple rough years but at least already had college degrees and work experience to fall back on.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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Quoting Jeni1124:

I could...but I wouldn't just accept it all as if I could do nothing about it.

we arent accepting it thats the thing, we try everything to get out of this, df has applied up and down the busiest street in our town with ware houses and everything no one calls back ever...he's applied at one place at least 7-10 times in the last 2 months

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