I avoid my husband because I know he's just going to ask for sex and I don't want to have sex with a guy who only cares about sex.
Annoys the fucking shit outta me!! He won't leave me alone!! Whether I'm tired, have a migraine, bleeding, battling cancer, or whatever...he thinks if I deny him sex, I've denied him an essential part of life. If he mentions scripture one more time (the only verse he's ever memorized in his whole life) about how the wife owes her husband sex, I'm going to set the book on fire.
Sex used to be fun. I used to look forward to it.
Now it's a damn chore and I need about 5 gallons of lube just to last for 10 minutes because this little hole stays dry as the sahara. I've only been giving it up just to shut his ass up.
I don't understand how he fails to realize that HE has made sex so damn unenjoyable for me. Has nothing to do with the physical act, but has everything to do with how much I resent his stupid ass.
And yes, I'm venting. I'm not getting a divorce. I don't really *hate* him. But he is getting on my last nerve tonight.