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Anonymous
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SO is out of town.
He calls asks what your plans for the day are. You tell him" beach and park its the first day of summer and the suns finally out"
He replies" ur changing everything up since I left" you respond witb " like what?" He says " going to the park n shit...u dont do that shit when im there"

You reply".we've been together 6 mo and tge weather s been mostly rain...we went to the park the few times the sun was out"

He then goes on this whole " ur changing everything up, makes me wonder what else ur doin....maybe I just won't fkn come bk"


Then hours later u get a text fron him saying ".sell all my stuff" u ask " so are u not coming bk?" He says " I didnt say that dont put words in my mouth" you reply".u said u may not earlier n told.me to sell ur stuff just now. Im not gonna play mind games" he says "im not playing mind games"


I mean really? To me thats a bitch ass way to break up over a stupid argument..... Then he get mad u change ur status to "single " n calls sayin "oh now u wanna be single" I said " u sure implied it"
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:32 PM
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momof4boyz1girl
by Platinum Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:33 PM

I'd be asking him what the fuck HE is doing.

muthrof_2
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:34 PM
I'd probably leave him alone to do as he pleases. He's supposed to be an adult, regardless if he's acting like one or not. Let him be childish.
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brittney28
by Brittney on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:36 PM
I would ignore him for a day or too, just to shake him up a bit.
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sissyboogs
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:36 PM
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Yeah...that shit wouldn't fly. Only 6 months into the relationship? You're not losing much. Pack his stuff and leave it on the porch for him. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:36 PM
Lots of funerals. Hes been there since the 1st wont be back til July 1st.hes had4 funerals so far and 1 possibly 2 moreto attend.

Quoting momof4boyz1girl:

I'd be asking him what the fuck HE is doing.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:36 PM
Yeah seems a little wacko. I'd ditch out on that relationship
Mare1180
by Platinum Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:37 PM

I would tell him he's not welcome back if he's going to be such a douche bag asshat :)
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-JellyfishEgg-
by Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:38 PM
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You both sound immature. Why would changing your status be one of the first things you do?

Grow up both of you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:39 PM
He is being childish. Hes all."your getting all mad" when I haven't raised my voice or barely said anything. Its only been 6 mo not long...still learning each other....but I mean...really? Ur mad cuz im out enjoying my day off in the sun with my kids?

Quoting muthrof_2:

I'd probably leave him alone to do as he pleases. He's supposed to be an adult, regardless if he's acting like one or not. Let him be childish.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 11:39 PM
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I'd be calling bs on that many funerals unless a mass murder happened.


Quoting Anonymous:

Lots of funerals. Hes been there since the 1st wont be back til July 1st.hes had4 funerals so far and 1 possibly 2 moreto attend.



Quoting momof4boyz1girl:

I'd be asking him what the fuck HE is doing.


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