I love my SO but he's really trying... We're together a lot, with our son, but I want to spend time together just us. Even if it's just snuggling for a movie when our son is asleep. Just talking, cuddling, whatever. We don't go out on dates, we never have. I don't like movie theatres and we can't afford to go for dinner or anything. He isn't romantic. He goes out almost every evening to a friend's house. I totally trust him to go, that's not the issue. I just wish he'd hang out with me instead. I've told him time and again, but he just says "It's too late to watch anything" or "I have nothing to talk about". He gets crabby if I push it. If I ask him to stay in and not go out, he gets annoyed and talks about how it's only a couple hours and how he hates staying in at night. When we have sex he gets up right away and goes outside for a smoke. He never compliments me. I love him, but I feel like there's no romance left and I miss it. If I talk to him about it he just says "I'm not a romantic guy". Well he used to be! I remember being 15 and he came to my window at like 3 am just to hug me and give me a rose. Why won't he spend time with me or be romantic anymore?