Well most not all do when the opportunity presents itself. That's MY opinion before you start bashing me. Here is my story:
I have trust issues to begin with because my dad who was married to my mom for 30 years let my mom know he had cheated on her every cahnce he got. they divorced and he married a younger chick three years later.
I am a temp assistant meaning I am placed as an office assistant/office manager throughout the valley in different types offices.
I began working as a legal assistant when I was 19. The attorney kept it professional and we never flirted although I caught him staring I my chest occasionally. I knew he was married he introduced me to his wife and she helped out at the office a few times. Any who, after I quit 7 months later h began calling me at night telling me the things he wanted to do. i ended up blocking him.
At 20 I worked as photo center tech for three months. I was allways joking with this dorky guy and I also knew his wife. well One day he asked for a ride cuz his car was stuck and our shift was over. I agreed his wife was at home, as he got out of the car he proceeded to ask if I wanted to have sex with him with no attachments. i left that job 2 weeks later. Nothing ever happened
At 20: I was a department assistant for a city hall: There was this very nice guy in code enforcement who also did djing on the weekends. since I was new he said he would buy lunch. after lunch he gave me a kiss on the cheek and tried to kiss me and his card if i wanted him to dj a party. well that weekend I called him to make me a cd and he was flirting and blah blah so i cut it short and said I would see him at work. The next day his WIFE shows up. She was hot and had pretty red hair, very nice. so he introduces to me and says she is the best wife ever, she blushes, stays a while and leaves. After she left he said, oh I'm married. I continued my job. Now the main code enforcement guy"pig" he has his entire office full of his wife & children's photos. I had seen her around she was pretty as well. Anyway one day i was putting files away in his office and he walked in after me locked the door and started kissing me. So disgusting I mean this man had pix of his wife everywhere and to think he could hurt her like that :(
well after 9 months that assignment was over and I was transferred to another department. They set up a temp email for me. Well the guy who sat behind me starting emailing me stuff and trying to flirt, keep in mind that he is engaged to the girl in the next department over, a door away. well one day during lunch i went to use the microwave in the kitchen and this idiot follows me and kisses me, he did that twice, the second time I slapped him and threatened him.
Gosh there are two more stories i'll write if anyone read this.
Another city hall I temped at there was this real nice guy a gentleman, he wore his ring and mentioned how much his wife loved him and how he loved his kids, then he mentioned the other girls he wa tallking to /messing around with. He said what he loved about his wife was that she prayed for him but they were young when they got together and if other females didnt mind that he was married that he would gladly go along.
I also did temp for a screen printing company now he was the biggest pig: His wife is gorgeous and 10 years younger than him. they already have a little boy together. well aside from him being obsessed with porn at work, he had affairs every Friday while his wife was pregnant. He even offerred me $300.00 to sleep with him. I declined by the way.
There you go Tesca half of my story