Threesome? Sex with a Stranger? Being Dominated? What's YOUR Fantasy?
Fantasizing about sex with a person otjher than your partner (or in a way that you and your parnter have never done it!) can actually HELP your sex life.
Watch to find out which fantasy is most common among CafeMom members, plus get tips on how to stock a totally clandestine "Hot Sex Kit" using items that you can easily and cheaply buy at any drug store - and that won't scream SEX TOY if you leave them lying around the house (hello, bobby pins!).
Were you surprised by the fantasy that's most common among CafeMom members? And do you have any of the DIY sex toys at home - and will you try using them soon?
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I can only keep an "idea" a fantasy so long before I have to try it.
I would agree with this comment 100%. Many a marriage has failed because a third person was brought into it. Why do I need to go outside of the marriage when I have a man willing to make all of my fantasies come true. You should be comfortable enough with your SO to be able to tell them your fantasies. Because really......What guy is going to say "You want me to ...... (fill in the blank, there are so many options) and tell you no way I am doing that!!." I don't know of any man who wishes his wife were LESS adventurous, kinky, sexy, or confident in the bedroom. And why would I be willing to be unfufilled when all I have to do is tell him what I want.
Quoting ladyfusilier:I only desire sex with the man I married and IF that ever gets boring we will spice it up some kind of way, between the two of us, marriages are hard enough these days no need to add another person to my bedroom. He is my fantasy. #satisfied
We pretty much act on all our fantasies. I'm already a submissive wife, we live that everyday. We jump on adultfriendfinder.com several times a week for guys/girls to watch me play with myself, suck, and f*** DH, sometimes there is over 1000 people watching, its pretty hot, we also have audio, so people can hear us and talk to us as we're doin it. We both really enjoy that.
We havent had a 3some yet, but we have come dangerously close to it, I told him to play with my friends fake boobs once, and he did (I really want a pair of fake boobs, so I was trying to convience him lol), and he lets his friends see and touch me pretty much everywhere. We never would do anything without the other one there. We arent 100% on whether or not we'd actually have a 3some yet, but we do know that we are a packaged deal LOL
Haha, well, what's my sexual fantasy? Having both kids asleep at the same time and not having to listen for "Mama???" while trying to be intimate with my husband!
My fantasy is being with a woman. Me and my husband have been together for about 6 years, and before him I was with quite a few male sexual partners. I've only had one sexual encounter with a woman but I was really drunk and don't remember that much about it.
I fell asleep with the t.v. on last night. Three's Company must have been on that channel. I had a dream that I was Janet and I had super hot, rolling in the sheets sex with Larry. We did not want Jack and Chrissy to find out but could not keep our hands off each other.
I've always been into asphixiation, hitting, and spanking, but since I got pregnant he won't choke me (nor would I let him). It's really put a damper on our sex life. I can't really think of any safe/kinky things to try. I tried doing some roleplay, but he's such a bad actor lol. Ugh... another 6 months I guess until my sex life is back.
I'm going to agree with this as well. I love my husband AND he is always there to satisfy me. I ask him what he wants sometimes, and he also asks me, but we are also not shy about telling each other what we want, either! If the both of you need to be "kinky" to make it work, then why the f*ck not? You're with each other for life, make the most of it!!
Quoting dizzy21712:I would agree with this comment 100%. Many a marriage has failed because a third person was brought into it. Why do I need to go outside of the marriage when I have a man willing to make all of my fantasies come true. You should be comfortable enough with your SO to be able to tell them your fantasies. Because really......What guy is going to say "You want me to ...... (fill in the blank, there are so many options) and tell you no way I am doing that!!." I don't know of any man who wishes his wife were LESS adventurous, kinky, sexy, or confident in the bedroom. And why would I be willing to be unfufilled when all I have to do is tell him what I want.
Quoting ladyfusilier:I only desire sex with the man I married and IF that ever gets boring we will spice it up some kind of way, between the two of us, marriages are hard enough these days no need to add another person to my bedroom. He is my fantasy. #satisfied
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