My dh just texted me this while I was at VBS with our son.
"I am making you a daily schedule. You ain't going to be happy but things are going to start changing. You are going to have about 9 hours of free time, so I don't think working the other few is too much to ask".
I clean daily but it is never good enough for him. He says I never do anything and am lazy and sit on my a** everyday. I am depressed and feel like less than nothing, have for a while. I am a sahm, I lost my license for 1 year, that was 5 years ago and he won't allow me to get my license back. He works 5-6 days a week, on weekends when he's off he always has his bestie come over for the entire weekend. We have not had a family weekend in over 6 months and forget about having an actual date night anymore. It seems to be more important to him to play fuc*ing video games with his friend than spend time with his wife or son.
I don't know what to do. I am at my wits end!!!