When he's drunk and in a black out. It's so embarrassing. I've berated him for it. He gets embarrassed too so you would think he would stop drinking that much but nope. It doesn't happen all the time but over the years it's happened so much that I've lost count. And it's happened twice this week. Last Saturday he passed out on the couch and pissed himself. Last night it was the bed. He wakes up as soon as he's done. It doesn't happen every time he drinks just when he blacks out. I'm at a loss. He knows he has a problem. He admits he's an alcoholic but where has it gotten us? Step 1- admit you're
an alcoholic. I'm sick of it. We've been back together for three years and just got married last month. It's not like I didn't know about this problem. Yet I choose for better or worse. We've never admitted it to our 8 yo either. We just dance around the issue of why she can't sit on the couch or lay in our bed after it's happened. I'm sick of not being able to sit on my couch or sleep in my bed when it happens. Anyone else deal with this? Sorry to go on and on. Obviously I don't bring this up much irl.