When he's drunk and in a black out. It's so embarrassing. I've berated him for it. He gets embarrassed too so you would think he would stop drinking that much but nope. It doesn't happen all the time but over the years it's happened so much that I've lost count. And it's happened twice this week. Last Saturday he passed out on the couch and pissed himself. Last night it was the bed. He wakes up as soon as he's done. It doesn't happen every time he drinks just when he blacks out. I'm at a loss. He knows he has a problem. He admits he's an alcoholic but where has it gotten us? Step 1- admit you're
an alcoholic. I'm sick of it. We've been back together for three years and just got married last month. It's not like I didn't know about this problem. Yet I choose for better or worse. We've never admitted it to our 8 yo either. We just dance around the issue of why she can't sit on the couch or lay in our bed after it's happened. I'm sick of not being able to sit on my couch or sleep in my bed when it happens. Anyone else deal with this? Sorry to go on and on. Obviously I don't bring this up much irl.
an alcoholic. I'm sick of it. We've been back together for three years and just got married last month. It's not like I didn't know about this problem. Yet I choose for better or worse. We've never admitted it to our 8 yo either. We just dance around the issue of why she can't sit on the couch or lay in our bed after it's happened. I'm sick of not being able to sit on my couch or sleep in my bed when it happens. Anyone else deal with this? Sorry to go on and on. Obviously I don't bring this up much irl.
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on Jun. 22, 2012 at 7:50 AM
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Gross. Idk. Rehab or Depends--seriously.
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on Jun. 22, 2012 at 7:51 AM
He may be more embarrassed when you berate him. Would he be willing to get help?
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on Jun. 22, 2012 at 7:57 AM
The could be a sign of his liver or kidney going..I forget which one. My mom said that about my brother who did that. He quit drinking too.
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on Jun. 22, 2012 at 7:59 AM
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I had an ex that did that. Key word: ex. I wouldn't stay with an alcoholic. Too sensitive an issue for me.
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on Jun. 22, 2012 at 8:02 AM
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I think the bigger issue is that he is drinking to a point of blacking out multiple times a week
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