I'm getting frustrated and he is embarrassed

[Anonymous]

I will start this out. I love my husband dearly. I will not leave over this. I just want to figure out if anyone else has this issue with their husband and how did they help.

My husband seems to have a built in birth control method. He doesn't cum. He will orgasm and then that is it. I'm frustrated because I want to get him to cum but he is embarrassed to go to the doctor.

I have only gotten him to cum twice.

I know this is not normal. At times he is even frustrated with it.

I told him I wont press the issue till the end of the year. We will start TTC then.

Anyone else's husband has this issue?

[Anonymous]

Get him to a Dr could be a prostate issue. Sometimes my dh will orgasm but not produce any cum. He calls is a dry orgasm. But it only happens to dh if we have sex too much in one day.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I orgasm all the time. I don't always ejaculate though. Others are even agreeing with me that they aren't the same thing.

Quoting Aslen:

I come. All the time. I don't always ejaculate though. Same thing. What it is to you and what it actually is are two different things

Quoting Anonymous:

to me cumming is ejaculation.

Quoting Aslen:

That's what I said.... cum= orgasm, NOT ejaculation

Quoting Anonymous:

People can orgasm without ejaculation.

Quoting Aslen:

if he orgasms he DID cum

[onethought]

Then he's faking the orgasm

Quoting Anonymous:

At first that is what I thought but even during oral nothing comes out when he orgasms.

Quoting Aslen:

if he orgasms he DID cum

[Anonymous]

You didn't cum you had an orgasm. Cum is ejaculate which is the fluid expelled when you ejaculate.

Quoting Aslen:

Not really. I came this last weekend a couple times. I didn't ejaculate. They're differnt things

Quoting Anonymous:

Wrong.

Quoting Aslen:

That's what I said.... cum= orgasm, NOT ejaculation

Quoting Anonymous:

People can orgasm without ejaculation.

Quoting Aslen:

if he orgasms he DID cum

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

no way he can fake his orgasms.... besides he knows lying to me hurts me more then not getting him to orgasm.

Quoting onethought:

Then he's faking the orgasm

Quoting Anonymous:

At first that is what I thought but even during oral nothing comes out when he orgasms.

Quoting Aslen:

if he orgasms he DID cum

[Aslen]

?? I've been saying the same thing. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I orgasm all the time. I don't always ejaculate though. Others are even agreeing with me that they aren't the same thing.

Quoting Aslen:

I come. All the time. I don't always ejaculate though. Same thing. What it is to you and what it actually is are two different things

Quoting Anonymous:

to me cumming is ejaculation.

Quoting Aslen:

That's what I said.... cum= orgasm, NOT ejaculation

Quoting Anonymous:

People can orgasm without ejaculation.

Quoting Aslen:

if he orgasms he DID cum

[Anonymous]

My Dh is like this. We have sex everyday, and he will actually cum maybe once out of the week. And yes there is a difference between orgams and cumming. He even has multiple orgasms.

[kjfamily]

So nothing comes out at all? If he really is having a orgasm then Something should be ejaculated especially with men. Something is not working properly with his reproductive system or he is faking . He needs to go to the doctor.

[.not.angel.]

Funniest thing to argue about on cm. Ever.

[newwifenmom]

Orgasm without ejaculation, interesting, never heard of it. He should definitely see a M.D. HUGS