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What type of woman gets pregnant from a dude before her Divorce is final?

Anonymous
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My sisters boss did that and I just don't get it.She just couldn't wait to spread her damn legs and get pregnant by yet a 3rd man. If you're wondering, she's still legally married to her Husband and now 6 months pregnant by another guy. Your thoughts?

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 24, 2012 at 5:52 PM
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jessi2girls
by Ruby Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 7:40 PM

least she has a job....

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:06 PM
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They couldn't afford a few hundred dollars to file some paperwork but you could afford to have a child with him?

Quoting kmorales7690:

if it is just  a piece of paper that they haven't gotten rid of yet then why does it matter. My husband and I were together for over a year before I even got pregnant, and she had a serious boyfriend as well. Neither of them could afford the divorce at the time.

Quoting Anonymous:

smdh

Quoting kmorales7690:

my husband was still legally married to his first wife whenever I got pregnant, they had been seperated for like two years though. 



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:06 PM
Yes, it sounds like a train wreck all the way around.

Quoting .Black.Widow.:

Do you know every detail of the situation?? If not, then don't judge.

I've got a friend who is still "legally" married. She and the ass have been seperated since 2008. It took her more than two years to get the paperwork going because he kept dodging it. It's been going on for the last two years. She and her bf started seeing each other a year and a half ago. She ended up prego... oh and her divorce probably won't be finalized for another year or so.
AND her soon to be ex has been living with the girl he was cheating on her with (the reason they split) the entire 4 years.

Feel like judging that one??

godsgirl26
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:07 PM
Sad is what that is.
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2love
by Silver Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:07 PM
I am lol just because my ex refused to sign papers for three years doesn't mean I was waiting. A marriage is the relations not the paper.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:11 PM
a girl I know has three kids with three men, is about to start proceedings on her second divorce and is already living with another man (and all of her kids). to me the worst part is her oldest is only 4, so this is all in less than 5 years
Lydlou02
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:12 PM
DD was born 1month before my divorce hearing, and the divorce wasn't final until 1 year after the hearing.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:13 PM

OMG thank you. Exactly.

Quoting Anonymous:

They couldn't afford a few hundred dollars to file some paperwork but you could afford to have a child with him?

Quoting kmorales7690:

if it is just  a piece of paper that they haven't gotten rid of yet then why does it matter. My husband and I were together for over a year before I even got pregnant, and she had a serious boyfriend as well. Neither of them could afford the divorce at the time.

Quoting Anonymous:

smdh

Quoting kmorales7690:

my husband was still legally married to his first wife whenever I got pregnant, they had been seperated for like two years though. 




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:15 PM

so I guess having a baby is more of a commitment than marriage is. I thought they were equal.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:35 PM

Please...I left STBX over a year ago..Been trying to leave for a couple years but he would threaten suicide and stupid shit. And a couple months after leaving him I ran into my new bf (who I used to be babysat with as kids) and we have been together since...I'm not going to sit around and wait on those damn papers cause he seems to think he holds off long enough i'll take him back! I'm happy, and wouldn't hold off on that just cause "Legally" I'm married!

OH and just to add to it...BF is going through a divorce too with his cheating STBX wife!  Some people just like to drag it out

 

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