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ED? (Erectile Disfuntion) TMI

My husband claims he has ED, Im not sure. He didn't have a problem for the first 3 months then it started I would be going down on him and it would just go away ( I thought I was doing something wrong), Then I noticed it would happen right before we started to have sex. I thought maybe he was Pre-Ejaculator. It has just gotten worse now to the point that we have sex maybe 2 times a month cause we are both so discouraged I feel unattractive and he feels can't keep up with my needs...... He has gone to Dr. And they gave him Cialis and it helped alot but it insurance won't cover it and it costs over 200 dollars down here. I don't think it's his age at all but he uses that as a excuse (he's 30 Im 20). Honestly I feel as though he may be straying or something is this common?  

Here is a example: Before I got preggo I put on a stripper out fit lol and took charge he was ready to go until I pushed him on the bed not hard but playfully like I owned him lol and he lost it. I asked if it was cause I was dominate and he swears no But dude I am so freaking lonely and we are avoiding each other and the worst part is we have only been married a month :(

by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:17 PM
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by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:32 PM
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No problem! :) I know how distressing it can be. Good luck to you both!

Quoting JustSabrina2012:

I will see if he's up for it that sounds cheaper that 200 dollars a month lol Thank you

Quoting Anonymous:

My DH had some ED issues once & it turned out to be restricted blood flow due to misaligned hips from sitting on his huge wallet in his back pocket all the time. You might have him see a chiropractor. DH got adjusted & hasn't had a problem since. That was 7 years ago.

Quoting JustSabrina2012:

He did before we TTC our baby, and they ran tests cause they thought we would have a low sperm count but everything cam back good just a little high cholestorol (SP?) Otherwise he is a healthy man.... I might make him go again....

Quoting lucky2Beeme:

he should see his dr. have a complete physical and go from there.

by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:33 PM

I didn't know that could cause it I just looked it up when you wrote that and thats pretty interesting.  He don't have Diabetes had him checked before we TTC so in December. What kinda drugs can cause it?

Quoting HaloWithHorns78:

Yes or drugs. Not saying that's what it is. Diabetes can cause it to.

Quoting JustSabrina2012:

Nope no Meds. Y can that effect that? 

Quoting HaloWithHorns78:

Does he take medications or is he diabetic?

by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 8:35 PM
It depends on alot if issues does he use drugs, does he have a medical issue? Blood pressure. My ex had ed and it was discouraging.
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