I slept with my husband friend. EDIT.

[Anonymous]

Me hubby & our male friend went out clubbing.Well of course i drank way to much i decided i was rdy to go home. My husband asked his friend to take me home while he stayed at the club with his friends. well his friend took me home. one thing led to another we had some HOT sex but now i feel like shit because my husband have no clue what happen..

His friend threaten to tell my husband what happen if i don't have sex with him. My husband friend is HOT i must say but that is not the point. i don't want my husband to leave me if he finds out. We have 4 kids together and I'm so torn on what to do.

EDIT: well i haven't told my husband yet.

Yesterday his friend called him and i to come over for dinner. well i was trying to make up an excuse not to go.

I went anyway, when i got there all of the friends that we hang out with was there. We were all talking my husband went outside with the other guys. Well the *friend* pointed for me to go to the other room and i did.

He ask me * did u tell your husband yet* i told me no. He said u have a week to tell him if not I'm going to. At that time i was pissed off and said * Dude do what u have to do*

Everyone came inside the house. i ran out the room and the friend followed which my husband notice. My husband then asked me* what was i doing in the room with him*

I told him oh nothing just talking. Well later that night his friend texted him and told him what happen. He asked me why didn't i say anything. i told him because i was scared and ashamed to say something. He then ask me was it true and i told him yes.

He reached over and slap the shit out of me. My nose started bleeding then he grab me and throw me against the wall. yelling saying how I'm such a whore and blah, blah.

Well we made up and everything is ok now. i love my husband with everything i have.

I have no clue what he is going to do with his friend. Well thank u ladies for the advice that some has given me i appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

Great, so you're a cheater and your husband is a beater.

Time for a divorce since you're a skank and he could care less that he made you bleed. Great environment for kids to grow up in. LOSERS!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I agree.

Quoting Anonymous:

Your husband should take some responsibility since he sent you home with his friend while you were drunk out of your mind.... what was he thinking? that you were fully capable of making decisions in the state of mind you were in? 

[tibbybear]

You say you love your husband but you didn't love him when you are sleeping with his friend. You are very lucky that he forgave you. neither one of you have any business getting drunk and clubbing when you have kids at home. If I was your husband, I would burn the mattress and also if he forgives you, he should forgive his friend

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I'm very lucky he forgave me. I know this will NEVER happen again.

My kids were with my mil when this all went down. Now as far as his friend. i have no clue what he is going to do about him.

Quoting tibbybear:

You say you love your husband but you didn't love him when you are sleeping with his friend. You are very lucky that he forgave you. neither one of you have any business getting drunk and clubbing when you have kids at home. If I was your husband, I would burn the mattress and also if he forgives you, he should forgive his friend

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Well that's your option :)

Quoting Anonymous:

Great, so you're a cheater and your husband is a beater.

Time for a divorce since you're a skank and he could care less that he made you bleed. Great environment for kids to grow up in. LOSERS!

[Mom2Jake08]

This is so fake.  This group sucks lol.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Fake, no its not fake this is very much real.

Quoting Mom2Jake08:

This is so fake.  This group sucks lol.

[shell3m]

ok so now he knows.  See why we told you to tell him yourself?  he's  more mad that he had to hear it from him, that's messed up on your part.  You should have been a big girl about it.  Now your husband needs to deside if  he TRULY wants to move on or not.  If so then he can't hold this  over you forever and you have to forgive yourself and as a married couple move forward.  He also need to totally cut that friend out of your lives or else he may not beable to move on.  Did the guy tell him in hopes that your husband would leave you and then the "friend" would have a chance at you?  I guess it doesn't matter at this point.  Cut him out and move forward in your marriage if both of you really want to.  If he can't let it go then you need to move on.