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I Think This Punishment Is Just!

Posted by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:22 PM
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If my teenage daughter cut off a 3 year old baby's hair, I'd shave her head.

If someone cut my 3 year old's hair, they had better hope they become incarcerated before I got to them.

http://www.toledonewsnow.com/story/18869538/utah-mom-upset-over-judges-hair-cut-punishment

Utah mom upset over judge's hair-cut punishment

PRICE, Utah (AP) - A Utah mother says she felt intimidated in court when a judge told her that he would reduce her 13-year-old daughter's sentence if she chopped off the girl's ponytail in court - an offer the mother says she now wishes she hadn't taken.

Valerie Bruno, of Price, said she has filed a formal complaint against 7th District Juvenile Judge Scott Johansen with the Utah Judicial Conduct Commission. The teenager and an 11-year-old friend were referred to juvenile court for cutting off the hair of a 3-year-old girl with scissors in March and for harassing another girl in Colorado by telephone.

When the 13-year-old faced Johansen for a hearing in May, he ordered she serve 30 days in detention and to perform 276 hours of community service, but he also offered to take 150 hours of community service off the sentence if her mother cut her ponytail in his courtroom.

Bruno is now expressing regret for not consulting an attorney before taking her daughter into the courtroom.

"I guess I should have went into the courtroom knowing my rights, because I felt very intimidated," she told the Deseret News. "An eye for an eye, that's not how you teach kids right from wrong."

Mindy Moss, mother of the 3-year-old whose hair was cut off, said she approved of the sentence and even spoke up during the hearing when she felt Bruno had not cut off enough of her daughter's hair. Johansen then directed Bruno to cut the ponytail all the way "to the rubber band."

Moss told The Salt Lake Tribune that she originally called police about the haircut because she worried the girls' behavior could become more serious.

"I didn't want them to think they got away with it ... It was malicious," Moss said.

Attempts by The Associated Press to reach Johansen were unsuccessful Sunday.

Colin Winchester, executive director of the Utah Judicial Conduct Commission, said the state Constitution bars him from commenting on whether a complaint has been filed against a judge. A complaint only becomes public if disciplinary action is taken against a judge, he said.

Under state law, judges are given discretion in coming up with sanctions for youth that will change their behavior in a positive way.

Johansen ordered the friend of Bruno's daughter to have her hair cut as short as his. She was allowed to go to a salon to have it done, then return to the courtroom to ensure that the new hairstyle met with the judge's approval.

Copyright 2012 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.



Posted by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:22 PM
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gum.drop
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:24 PM
I wouldn't be that upset..... But I would want the girls punished, but not by cutting off their hair.
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by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:25 PM

Nope don't think cutting off hair is going to teach anything.

anetrnlov
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:26 PM
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Oh geez, that's ridiculous.  How out of control is your household when you have to get the courts involved.

If she were mine, she would be doing manual labor until I decided to let her stop.

carterscutie85
by *Shanny's Lover* on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:27 PM

She deserved what she got..you wanna make an innocent 3 year old baby look messed up by cutting her hair? Well now your hair will look messed up too.

Fox news also reported that this girl had been making harassing phone calls to another teen, threatening mutilation and rape.

anetrnlov
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:28 PM

Exactly, the stuff grows back and there's all kinds of ways to hide a bad cut.

Quoting Anonymous:

Nope don't think cutting off hair is going to teach anything.


JLS2388
by Ruby Member on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:29 PM

I think they should have gotten the exact same hair cut as the 3 year old got (probably all off)

Momniscient
by Platinum Member on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:29 PM
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That teenager also had charges against her for threatening rape and mutilation and harassment of another child.


Something needed to be done with this child.


Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/06/24/judge-orders-utah-mom-to-chop-off-daughters-ponytail-in-courtroom/?test=latestnews#ixzz1ymKtEQoF

FooLynRoo
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:30 PM
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Yes we already had this thread, I said shave her fucking head too.


carterscutie85
by *Shanny's Lover* on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:30 PM

I think that 13 year old is the start of a sociopath..who the fuck bullies a 3 year old?

carterscutie85
by *Shanny's Lover* on Jun. 25, 2012 at 12:31 PM

Mine's better. It sparkles lol.


I just got back from the store and that was the first news story I saw.

Quoting FooLynRoo:

Yes we already had this thread, I said shave her fucking head too.





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