On their days off to you let them sleep all day like they do during days they work? My dh works nights. He works from 7 pm -3 or 4 am. He goes to bed around 6 or 6:30 am and then sleeps until at least 3 or 4 pm. I make him get up earlier on days off. He needs to spend time with the family and at least help me with the kids. During the week I get NO HELP from him at all, so on weekends I expect him to get up and help.