My confession: I let my DH sleep with another woman (not swingers)

[Anonymous]

I have way more sexual experience than my DH and I didn't think it was fair for him to stop doing things just because we got married. If there are things he wants to do, I support it as long as I know and it's nothing ridiculous. So I found this ad online where a man was looking for someone to have sex with his wife. Everything lined up and he met them at a hotel and he had sex with the wife while the husband videotaped and took pictures. They all enjoyed themselves and had a good time. My husband and the guy text here & there (just "how you doin' type chit chat). The first time was last year and they met up again this past March. I kinda like giving him the freedom and my answer is the final answer. Is there anyone else in a similar situation?

[Anonymous]

Um, no.

[mrsbrimer]

Im the grumpy old troll who lives under the bridge!!

Y'all sang that huh?

[mom2bell]

Hell No. I just find that sad.

[unspecified42]

Nope. I have more sexual experience than my boyfriend, but I would not be comfortable with that. To each his own, though, I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Hell nah I wont share! Did your sex get better after?

[lowencope]

You may not call it swinging, but what you are doing is swinging.  

[Anonymous]

I would not be okay with the picture taking and video taping though

[Anonymous]

um, hell no.

I think that's asking for trouble.  And why in the HELL would your DH let someone video tape and take pics of him F*cking his wife?  wtf?  

[NikkiDoll]

That is not my idea of marriage. Sounds like he should have waited to get married if he felt he didn't have enough "experience."

[maria295447]

I'm not the op .. but i have seriously thought about doing this ... due to my husband being a virgin..when we got together in high-school ..