I think its hot
And the next night I get the best sex of my life!
We are all consenting adults. We can do as we please, and we are hurting no one. There is no reason for us to get divorced just so we can have 3 somes. it does not make our marriage any more or less than anyone else's.
We are strong in our relationship, that's why we can do this and not regret it later. We are madly in love with each other and understand each other and our needs/wants.