And the boy already shows signs of aggressive and controling behaviour. Example: boy's friend comes to him and say girl is sitting with another boy at lunch talking and laughing. Boy goes to girls house and tells mom very rudely that he needs to talk to girl NOW, its an emergency. Girl runs out door to talk to boy. Mom looks and sees boy grab girls head and force her to look at him saying "LOOK AT ME!" Example 2: boy sees something from old fb page of girls. He calls moms cell phone at midnight demanding to talk to girl. Mom allows it and when she walks in the room she can hear boy screaming and hollering at girl thru the phone. ~~ Mom admits that girl is scared of boy yet she lets boy stay the night at the house with girl, allows girl to talk to boy, allows girl to go with boy places without her chaperone. ~~~I know what I would do and it wouldnt be good for the boy...curious as to what others would do. Thoughts?