we have 2 kids and have been together for almost 8 yrs. we had sex all the time when we first got together. but only for like the first 2 or 3 weeks. after i found out i was pregnant it slowed down quite a bit. well... we have gone over a year without having sex b4. i know, its shocking and pathetic. ok, ur thinking, "hes probably cheating", right? well, when hes not at work, hes home, and vice versa. as a matter of fact, i wish he would go out with friends or do something other than stay here all the time. theres so much tension from the sex thing, i get tired of being around him. we're like roommates that happen to have children together. also, hes somewhat of a homophobe, and that raises yet another flag. HE'S 28 FOR GODS SAKE!!! what 28 yr old man doesnt wanna have sex?! and this has been an issue for years! and im not like repulsive or anything. at least i dont think i am. im sick of wondering "whats wrong with me?" so, shed some light people. i need an outside perspective. btw,,, my baby is almost 4 months old and we havnt done it sense early august of last year. im sure i already know what everyone will say, but i still wanna hear it.