Fighting with my bd... *pretty long* sry

[Jari89]

So these past three days have been the worst. On Tuesday I got into the biggest fight with my baby father. This time I've had it. It all started because I want to move out the apartment we was living in. First I left in the morning to walk the dog. I was gone for like an hour. Daily morning walk. I had left the back door open. So when I came back the door was locked. This dude literally left me outside waiting for 30 minutes. Smh and he didn't want to open the door. When he open the door I ignored it. I thought it was funny. So I was laughing. And he was mad so I told him hey we have an appointment to check out the new apartment. And he's like why don't you go tell ur friend jazz to go move with you. Mind you jazz is a dyke friend that I have. So he thinks that me and this girl have something going on. And I don't. So he just started saying things out his mouth about that I'm a hoe and a slut. That he doesn't want to be with me because I don't listen to him. Basically he's trying to take control of me. So I got mad n started talking crap back. I guess he couldn't handle the truth and he started throwing me around the house. Yes I was hitting him back because I don't stay hit from no one. So I decides to throw me out the house. Ok I'm kool with that. But he also put our 2 year old daughter out. Now that's what triggered all those crazy things in my head. I went psycho n punched the window I cut my arm all crazy shit. But throughout this all I didn't call the cops cuz he had my phone. He thru all my stuff out into the street n my daughter stuff. Like Wtf. So that same day I had to get someone to come get my stuff n find a place to stay which it wasn't easy. So yesterday when I went to file charges on his ass they told me I couldn't do it because I was too late. I was supposed to call during the fight. So know I don't know what to do. I'm so lost. Smh I'm so stressed out. Any suggestions??

[priincessz]

Yeah I understand but it beats living in a shelter.

Quoting Jari89:

Yeah I do. But I don't want to depend on anyone. If been on my own since I was 15. So its hard to ask for anything from anyone.

Quoting priincessz:

Do you have any family that can help you out?

Quoting Jari89:

Yeah i know. Ive been crying. I dont want to go back to a shelter. The whole 2011 I was in a shelter. Trying to better myself. But he always fucks it up. I think that's what I'm going to have to do.

Quoting priincessz:

That's fucked up. I would just file for custody and get away from him.

Quoting Jari89:

They said I was 24hr late. All this happened around 12:30 till like 5 in the afternoon. It was so hectic. But when I went in to the police station I had to wait for an officer to come and talk to me. I waited like 2 hrs.

Quoting priincessz:

Why would they not let you press charges?

[Jari89]

Ok I see what your saying. But I was getting my stuff to leave. I was actually going to take a shower when he started pushing me around. All I wanted to do was make it to my appointment with or without him.

Quoting MommyOfTheBest2:

Its ghetto by the way you describe it honey. Throwing peoples stuff on the lawn during a fight is trashy. Punching your hand through your own window is trashy. Getting mad and talking crap back is trashy. The both of you getting physical is trashy, made worse by the fact that your daughter was there, sleeping or not. Mature people don't fight like that. If you can't be civil then you two need to just separate. File for sole custody, go to the shelter and get your shit together for your daughters sake.

[Luv.My.Kidz]

I have no problem telling you that you are stupid for fighting in front of, around, or even in close proximity to your daughter.

Also, LEARN some ENGLISH!

Quoting Jari89:

Yes I love it. Now I got these Anonymous ppl wanting to post their opinions. But don't got the balls to show their name. Lmao nice. I no I was wrong. But after he put her out my neighbor took her. So she didn't really get to see anything. I just love how people assume shit. Smh lol

[HadleyAzure]

 It doesn't matter that she was asleep. This situation should have never happened in the first place. Your relationship sounds like a cluster fuck that has gone on entirely too long. For your daughters sake I hope you guys can get your shit together.

Quoting Jari89:

Nice choice of words. Lol and for your information my daughter was sleep throughout the whole thing. And my neighbor took her when he put her outside.

Quoting HadleyAzure:

Because both of you are were being immature jackasses.

Quoting Jari89:

How do I sound "Ignorant"?

Quoting Anonymous:

Wow....just wow you sound ignorant.

[Jari89]

Your right. I'm actually staying in my uncle house. I just want to get away from everyone.

Quoting priincessz:

Yeah I understand but it beats living in a shelter.

Quoting Jari89:

Yeah I do. But I don't want to depend on anyone. If been on my own since I was 15. So its hard to ask for anything from anyone.

Quoting priincessz:

Do you have any family that can help you out?

Quoting Jari89:

Yeah i know. Ive been crying. I dont want to go back to a shelter. The whole 2011 I was in a shelter. Trying to better myself. But he always fucks it up. I think that's what I'm going to have to do.

Quoting priincessz:

That's fucked up. I would just file for custody and get away from him.

Quoting Jari89:

They said I was 24hr late. All this happened around 12:30 till like 5 in the afternoon. It was so hectic. But when I went in to the police station I had to wait for an officer to come and talk to me. I waited like 2 hrs.

Quoting priincessz:

Why would they not let you press charges?

[meka26]

Quoting Anonymous:

Your poor kid. I feel bad she had to witness that shit from both of you.

Agree. If you are going to act like a fool, make sure your dd is not around. You could have called the police at a neighbor's house, removed your items, and left. Breaking windows show you are just as childish as he is, SMH.

[Anonymous]

She is not even anon. Why would they take her button? She'd be trolling if. It was anon.

Quoting Crazy-Steph:

Be careful trolling.  They might take your button from you.

[krayzbabylove]

Your poor daughter. First she gets thrown out of the house because her parents are abusive idiots, and then she gets to watch her mommy go psyco and punch through a window. Nice job.

[priincessz]

I know how it feels to be in the situation you're in. I went thru it with my ex and I left behind his back. It sucks at first but give it a few weeks then you tell yourself it's the best decision you've ever made.

Quoting Jari89:

Your right. I'm actually staying in my uncle house. I just want to get away from everyone.

Quoting priincessz:

Yeah I understand but it beats living in a shelter.

Quoting Jari89:

Yeah I do. But I don't want to depend on anyone. If been on my own since I was 15. So its hard to ask for anything from anyone.

Quoting priincessz:

Do you have any family that can help you out?

Quoting Jari89:

Yeah i know. Ive been crying. I dont want to go back to a shelter. The whole 2011 I was in a shelter. Trying to better myself. But he always fucks it up. I think that's what I'm going to have to do.

Quoting priincessz:

That's fucked up. I would just file for custody and get away from him.

Quoting Jari89:

They said I was 24hr late. All this happened around 12:30 till like 5 in the afternoon. It was so hectic. But when I went in to the police station I had to wait for an officer to come and talk to me. I waited like 2 hrs.

Quoting priincessz:

Why would they not let you press charges?

[MommyOfTheBest2]

I understand, I've been in a toxic relationship too. Just get away from him. Do whatever you need to do to get on your feet independently and care for your baby the way she deserves. Sure you may struggle but it will be so worth it years down the road. You'll be on your feet with a happy well adjusted kid instead of patching your broken windows (or bones!) with this guy who sounds like he needs anger management. That's just a bad environment for your kid :-( No caring mama wants to raise their babies up in a home like that, right? She deserves better and so do you! Good luck with everything!!

Quoting Jari89:

Ok I see what your saying. But I was getting my stuff to leave. I was actually going to take a shower when he started pushing me around. All I wanted to do was make it to my appointment with or without him.

Quoting MommyOfTheBest2:

Its ghetto by the way you describe it honey. Throwing peoples stuff on the lawn during a fight is trashy. Punching your hand through your own window is trashy. Getting mad and talking crap back is trashy. The both of you getting physical is trashy, made worse by the fact that your daughter was there, sleeping or not. Mature people don't fight like that. If you can't be civil then you two need to just separate. File for sole custody, go to the shelter and get your shit together for your daughters sake.