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Virgins......

Posted by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:29 PM
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It seems a lot of you have extreme misconceptions about virgins.

Virgins aren't emotionally crippled.

Virgins aren't socially awkward.

Virgins are ugly or repulsive.

Virgins don't have self esteem issues.


It seems you have them confused with another group of people.


Virgins have self respect.

Virgins have self control.

Virgins have morals and boundaries.

Virgins have the intelligence to know that adult decisions lead to adult consequences.


And adult virgin shouldn't be shunned. They should be rewarded for not becoming a whore at 15. This goes for male and female.

It seems a lot of you want to focus on the 15 year old and whore thing instead of what the post was about.
No not everyone who has sex at 15 is a whore. I didn't say that. You assumed that.
But I don't feel children should be making adult decisions and thinking they are grown because they had sex.
And no where did I say anything about rape so move along with that.
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P.V.Hawkwind
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:29 PM
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I don't think people who lost their are whores.
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marchantmom06
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:31 PM
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No I don't either. But chances are if you are having sex at 15 you will have more than a few partners by the time you are 25.
and many teens are becoming whores. It's disturbing. Sex is so glorified now a days.
Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.


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Angeldolphine
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:31 PM
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Um, why are you telling us this?  You damn well better not be a virgin anymore since your supposed to have children to be on this forum...unless you're Mary or have step children.

Also, you can't make a general claim like that. Some virgins are emotionally crippled, socially awkward, ugly, and have self-esteem issues. These statements read as all virgins aren't emotionally crippled etc.

Tooth_Inspector
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:32 PM

I didn't know people shunned virgins. I was so proud of my SIL for sticking to being pure until her wedding night as well as my BIL.

P.V.Hawkwind
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:32 PM
I also don't think the number of partners makes one a whore either.

Quoting marchantmom06:

No I don't either. But chances are if you are having sex at 15 you will have more than a few partners by the time you are 25.
and many teens are becoming whores. It's disturbing. Sex is so glorified now a days.

Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.



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goodmama85
by Mommy Of 3 on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:33 PM

if that's the case then we're all whores lol.

Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.


EAzizM
by Erica on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:33 PM
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I dont think someone who isnt a virgin is a whore. I think being a whore is what makes you a whore. lol

marchantmom06
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:33 PM
And some sexually active people are those same exact things. Even more so sexually active kids are seeking affection of someone they aren't getting at home.

I am not a virgin. I was however a virgin bride.


Quoting Angeldolphine:

Um, why are you telling us this?  You damn well better not be a virgin anymore since your supposed to have children to be on this forum...unless you're Mary or have step children.

Also, you can't make a general claim like that. Some virgins are emotionally crippled, socially awkward, ugly, and have self-esteem issues. These statements read as all virgins aren't emotionally crippled etc.


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Godgaveme4
by Bronze Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:34 PM

 I love it and totally agree.

marchantmom06
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:34 PM
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Do you know what a whore is??


Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I also don't think the number of partners makes one a whore either.



Quoting marchantmom06:

No I don't either. But chances are if you are having sex at 15 you will have more than a few partners by the time you are 25.
and many teens are becoming whores. It's disturbing. Sex is so glorified now a days.


Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.





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