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Virgins......

Posted by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:29 PM
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It seems a lot of you have extreme misconceptions about virgins.

Virgins aren't emotionally crippled.

Virgins aren't socially awkward.

Virgins are ugly or repulsive.

Virgins don't have self esteem issues.


It seems you have them confused with another group of people.


Virgins have self respect.

Virgins have self control.

Virgins have morals and boundaries.

Virgins have the intelligence to know that adult decisions lead to adult consequences.


And adult virgin shouldn't be shunned. They should be rewarded for not becoming a whore at 15. This goes for male and female.

It seems a lot of you want to focus on the 15 year old and whore thing instead of what the post was about.
No not everyone who has sex at 15 is a whore. I didn't say that. You assumed that.
But I don't feel children should be making adult decisions and thinking they are grown because they had sex.
And no where did I say anything about rape so move along with that.
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marchantmom06
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:40 PM
I posted the definition for you, and by definition then I would be correct.


Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

Yes I do.



Quoting marchantmom06:

Do you know what a whore is??






Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I also don't think the number of partners makes one a whore either.







Quoting marchantmom06:

No I don't either. But chances are if you are having sex at 15 you will have more than a few partners by the time you are 25.
and many teens are becoming whores. It's disturbing. Sex is so glorified now a days.




Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.








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GomezMami2908
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:41 PM

And what about the ones that gladly take it up the ass to remain virgins? Those chicks are a fucking joke to me, and in my opinion have ZERO self-respect, morals, boundaries, and intelligence.

OneToughMami
by Ruby Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:41 PM

Is there a time span for you then?

Because to me a whore pretty much is someone who just sleeps around with every penis or vagina. Like if you are 50 never married and had like 10 partners you're not a whore. If you are 15 just lost your virginity in April and had 10 partners, you might be cutting it close. I am not arguing with you I am just trying to figure out how YOU personally would define whoredom.

Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

Yes I do.

Quoting marchantmom06:

Do you know what a whore is??




Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I also don't think the number of partners makes one a whore either.





Quoting marchantmom06:

No I don't either. But chances are if you are having sex at 15 you will have more than a few partners by the time you are 25.
and many teens are becoming whores. It's disturbing. Sex is so glorified now a days.



Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.








marchantmom06
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:41 PM

n.
1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.


I hate when people only post the first line. Good try though.


Quoting EAzizM:

Defenition of whore: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money

Quoting marchantmom06:

Do you know what a whore is??





Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I also don't think the number of partners makes one a whore either.





Quoting marchantmom06:

No I don't either. But chances are if you are having sex at 15 you will have more than a few partners by the time you are 25.
and many teens are becoming whores. It's disturbing. Sex is so glorified now a days.



Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

I don't think people who lost their are whores.









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dilateyourmind
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:41 PM

BRAVO!

OneToughMami
by Ruby Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:41 PM


Quoting GomezMami2908:

And what about the ones that gladly take it up the ass to remain virgins? Those chicks are a fucking joke to me, and in my opinion have ZERO self-respect, morals, boundaries, and intelligence.

Yeah or the ones who will suck anyone's penis or vagina for the guys...


marchantmom06
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:42 PM
Wait so having anal SEX makes you a virgin still?? I still see the word sex in there.


Quoting GomezMami2908:

And what about the ones that gladly take it up the ass to remain virgins? Those chicks are a fucking joke to me, and in my opinion have ZERO self-respect, morals, boundaries, and intelligence.


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DixieL
by Platinum Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:42 PM

Virgins are just waiting for the right person to come along in my opinion

P.V.Hawkwind
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:43 PM
So does a woman who was gang raped at 15 a whore? Or a child that has been sold into the sex industry a whore? Maybe a woman who has sex with a longtime boyfriend then yearS later waited and had sex with her husband on her wedding night? How many sexual partners are too many? 2? 9? 30?
Quoting marchantmom06:

Main Entry: 2whore

Function: verb

Inflected Form(s): whored; whor·ing

Date: 1554

intransitive verb

1 : to have unlawful sexual intercourse as or with a whore

2 : to pursue a faithless, unworthy, or idolatrous desire

transitive verb

obsolete : to corrupt by lewd intercourse : debauch



WHORE



n.

1. A prostitute.

2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.

3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.





Promiscuity, in human sexual behavior, is the practice of casual sex with multiple sexual partners.[1]
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onethentwins
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:43 PM

I'd argue that pretty much anyone who is having sex at 15 had it stolen. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Quoting Anonymous:

Damn! None of my business what someone does in the privacy of their own bedroom. But mine was stolen from me even before I tunred 15.


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