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nevermind that your wife is crying and gagging in the passenger seat, glad your comfortable EDIT!!!

Posted by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:33 PM
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We are on about a half hr. Car trip, my ears are very sensitive ( my parents couldn't afford tubes as a child) I can't have anything by my neck ( my ex husband tried to strangle me). My husband knows all of this, so when we get on the highway instead of putting the air on he rolls all the windows down. I'm sick of telling him every time we
get in the car so I will sit here and cry and gag until he figures it out



Edit!!!
We went about 3 miles and he realized why o was uncomfortable he apologized a lot and instantly put the Windows up and air on
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NichelleB07
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:49 PM


Quoting Kool_Aide:

This is strange. You are strange.


zildjans_mom
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:52 PM
Because it is very windy and it was all blowing directly across my neck it gives me anxiety.

I'm actually getting a lot better with it I used to not be able to have the Windows down at all. Now in town is fine but I can't handle the highway yet


Quoting Alliemad_3:

How is all this relevant to the fact that your ex tried to choke you?

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hautemama83
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:52 PM
So wait.....your window wasn't even down and you still carried on like that?

Quoting zildjans_mom:

No we don't just on the driver side my window was up




Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

You dont have controls for all the windows on the passenger side. 

Quoting BeAmour:

Most cars have buttons to make the windows go up and down and even if she had a crank window, she could have fixed that issue or asked him to undo the window safety lock.





Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

I am guessing that nothing makes you sick easily? Also how can she roll up all the windows? She is in the passenger seat. Have you ever had to ask your SO to do something over and over and over again for 3 years? I bet you would get upset as well.

Quoting CoolRelax:

Soo....the sane adult thing to do is to cry and gag until he does something?  The medical issues are not the problem here.  Any grown woman who would resort to crying and gagging rather than talking has bigger problems than bad ears. And yes, purposely putting yourself in a position to cry and gag by NOT rolling up the windows is doing it on purpose!!!  How can you even BEGIN to entertain this kind of nonsense!?! 




Quoting helema24:




ever stop to think that the air from the window is causeing her sensitive ears to act up which is causing her to gag due to pressure and fluid that builds up when you subject them to such trauma? shes not doing it on purpose she actually has a medical condition that causes pain to her and this causes her to cry and gag because of the extreem pain and he apparently doesnt remember her condition enough to NOT open the windows!!




Quoting CoolRelax:




You sound really coo-coo right now.  By all means, showcase your crazy by gagging and choking on purpose.   








 




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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:55 PM
Wow spoiled much? How is opening the windows gaging you? Really? Drama queen much? Oh boo hoo ill sit here and post on cm rather then taking care of the issue. Glad I never have to ride with you, we have the windows down and the music going having a good old time.
zildjans_mom
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:55 PM
Thank you! These are the only issues I really have with him at all. Just the Windows its really the only thing that bothers me


Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

I am guessing that nothing makes you sick easily? Also how can she roll up all the windows? She is in the passenger seat. Have you ever had to ask your SO to do something over and over and over again for 3 years? I bet you would get upset as well.

Quoting CoolRelax:

Soo....the sane adult thing to do is to cry and gag until he does something?  The medical issues are not the problem here.  Any grown woman who would resort to crying and gagging rather than talking has bigger problems than bad ears. And yes, purposely putting yourself in a position to cry and gag by NOT rolling up the windows is doing it on purpose!!!  How can you even BEGIN to entertain this kind of nonsense!?! 


Quoting helema24:


ever stop to think that the air from the window is causeing her sensitive ears to act up which is causing her to gag due to pressure and fluid that builds up when you subject them to such trauma? shes not doing it on purpose she actually has a medical condition that causes pain to her and this causes her to cry and gag because of the extreem pain and he apparently doesnt remember her condition enough to NOT open the windows!!


Quoting CoolRelax:


You sound really coo-coo right now.  By all means, showcase your crazy by gagging and choking on purpose.   




 



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La-Belle-Vie
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:55 PM
Well of course he did!
You have issues!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:57 PM
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:O

Wow she left that part out too.
Even if his window is down its not blowing directly onto your neck...I'd understand if its ur window but HIS. Really?...... and if it was in town like you claim then he wasn't even going fast.....

I think you were just looking for an excuse to act that way. And he eventually apologized once he realized why you were acting like a lunatic. So I think you should re-edit your post and say "he remember and apologized so I guess shame on me for talking about my dh and saying he was an asshole for not remembering when he DID in fact remember just not in my time limit."


Quoting hautemama83:

So wait.....your window wasn't even down and you still carried on like that?



Quoting zildjans_mom:

No we don't just on the driver side my window was up






Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

You dont have controls for all the windows on the passenger side. 

Quoting BeAmour:

Most cars have buttons to make the windows go up and down and even if she had a crank window, she could have fixed that issue or asked him to undo the window safety lock.







Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

I am guessing that nothing makes you sick easily? Also how can she roll up all the windows? She is in the passenger seat. Have you ever had to ask your SO to do something over and over and over again for 3 years? I bet you would get upset as well.

Quoting CoolRelax:

Soo....the sane adult thing to do is to cry and gag until he does something?  The medical issues are not the problem here.  Any grown woman who would resort to crying and gagging rather than talking has bigger problems than bad ears. And yes, purposely putting yourself in a position to cry and gag by NOT rolling up the windows is doing it on purpose!!!  How can you even BEGIN to entertain this kind of nonsense!?! 





Quoting helema24:





ever stop to think that the air from the window is causeing her sensitive ears to act up which is causing her to gag due to pressure and fluid that builds up when you subject them to such trauma? shes not doing it on purpose she actually has a medical condition that causes pain to her and this causes her to cry and gag because of the extreem pain and he apparently doesnt remember her condition enough to NOT open the windows!!





Quoting CoolRelax:





You sound really coo-coo right now.  By all means, showcase your crazy by gagging and choking on purpose.   










 





Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2012 at 3:58 PM
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You have mental issues. Do ppl never work through their issues anymore. Ok the bastared choked you...... yes freak out cause OMG THE BIG BAD WIND is SO going to choke you.... why not just drug yourself up, everyone who has anxiety over anything always do .. I swear now I have heard it all. Scared of the wind. Tell me how so you wear your seat belt then? Probably not correct.

Quoting zildjans_mom:

Because it is very windy and it was all blowing directly across my neck it gives me anxiety.



I'm actually getting a lot better with it I used to not be able to have the Windows down at all. Now in town is fine but I can't handle the highway yet




Quoting Alliemad_3:

How is all this relevant to the fact that your ex tried to choke you?

zildjans_mom
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 4:00 PM
It was directly on my neck we have a very small car and the carseat is behind the passenger seat I wasn't able at that time to move the seat because there was a child in the seat


Quoting Anonymous:

:O



Wow she left that part out too.

Even if his window is down its not blowing directly onto your neck...I'd understand if its ur window but HIS. Really?...... and if it was in town like you claim then he wasn't even going fast.....



I think you were just looking for an excuse to act that way. And he eventually apologized once he realized why you were acting like a lunatic. So I think you should re-edit your post and say "he remember and apologized so I guess shame on me for talking about my dh and saying he was an asshole for not remembering when he DID in fact remember just not in my time limit."




Quoting hautemama83:

So wait.....your window wasn't even down and you still carried on like that?





Quoting zildjans_mom:

No we don't just on the driver side my window was up








Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

You dont have controls for all the windows on the passenger side. 

Quoting BeAmour:

Most cars have buttons to make the windows go up and down and even if she had a crank window, she could have fixed that issue or asked him to undo the window safety lock.









Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

I am guessing that nothing makes you sick easily? Also how can she roll up all the windows? She is in the passenger seat. Have you ever had to ask your SO to do something over and over and over again for 3 years? I bet you would get upset as well.

Quoting CoolRelax:

Soo....the sane adult thing to do is to cry and gag until he does something?  The medical issues are not the problem here.  Any grown woman who would resort to crying and gagging rather than talking has bigger problems than bad ears. And yes, purposely putting yourself in a position to cry and gag by NOT rolling up the windows is doing it on purpose!!!  How can you even BEGIN to entertain this kind of nonsense!?! 






Quoting helema24:






ever stop to think that the air from the window is causeing her sensitive ears to act up which is causing her to gag due to pressure and fluid that builds up when you subject them to such trauma? shes not doing it on purpose she actually has a medical condition that causes pain to her and this causes her to cry and gag because of the extreem pain and he apparently doesnt remember her condition enough to NOT open the windows!!






Quoting CoolRelax:






You sound really coo-coo right now.  By all means, showcase your crazy by gagging and choking on purpose.   












 






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Moki75
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 4:01 PM

seriously???

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