My sister is 18 years old & has a 9 1/2 month old ds. His daddy is a lying, cheating, druggie & his mom doesn't want to clean house at all because she has nobody to help her. Her boyfriend who is 19 got arrested 2 days after finding out she was pregnant for having cocaine on him & of course lost his job due to not being able to come to work because he was locked up. Later on she found out he was cheating on her. The entire time she was pregnant he would tell her that nobody else would want her now because she's fat ( which she's really not ) & has a nasty stomach. They live with my dad & my little brother who is 17. The house looks like a freaking pig pen. She doesn't have the guts to tell dipwad to get out because she knows once dhr gets involved her ds will be taken away from her & her boyfriend because of the nasty house & the fact he really has nowhere to go. I was talking to dh about it & he said he will not allow this baby to be taken out of our lives & he will do anything he can to get custody of him.