Sometimes I feel like...
Posted by Anonymous
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An unpaid prostitute! When my dh and I have sex, which is extremely rare, if I don't get undressed fast enough he tells me that he's gonna loose it. Also, he does his business and then gets up and leaves to go to the living room. I rarely get anything out of it. I'm just so pissed and frustrated, sexually and otherwise! We had sex twice last month. I am so horney and ask him for sex, but he says no. We don't even sleep in the same bed/room (his choice not mine)!
Give me some ideas to get him to stop doing that and think about what I need and not just him.
Give me some ideas to get him to stop doing that and think about what I need and not just him.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:49 AM
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on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:51 AM
Have you talked to him and told him of your needs ?
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:59 AM
Quoting Lala06:
Have you talked to him and told him of your needs ?
Yes. He says that the others didn't need any help and he doesn't know what else to do.
He blames it on being old and tired.
He won't sleep in the room with me because he says he is a very light sleeper and wakes up really easy.
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on Jul. 2, 2012 at 4:04 AM
What others ? Will he see a Dr since he thinks he's old he may need some pills
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:05 AM
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What others ? Will he see a Dr since he thinks he's old he may need some pills
The others are his gf's from before he met me. The last one was about 10 years ago.
He doesn't want to go to the dr because he knows someone who had an erection that lasted so long that he had to go to the er because he was in so much pain. He says those pills are not natural
I told him maybe he just needs testosterone and not viagra.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:07 AM
Quoting Anonymous:
Try counseling. I've been with dh since we were teens, so I've trained him pretty well in that department! He won't have sex unless I've had 2 orgasms. Yup he's a keeper!
Can't afford counseling. Its either counseling or food/rent/other bills.
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on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:18 AM
Oh my goodness. I am sorry you are going through that. I am here for you. Anytime you need or want to talk message me. Hugs
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Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!