Sometimes I feel like...

[Anonymous]

An unpaid prostitute! When my dh and I have sex, which is extremely rare, if I don't get undressed fast enough he tells me that he's gonna loose it. Also, he does his business and then gets up and leaves to go to the living room. I rarely get anything out of it. I'm just so pissed and frustrated, sexually and otherwise! We had sex twice last month. I am so horney and ask him for sex, but he says no. We don't even sleep in the same bed/room (his choice not mine)!

Give me some ideas to get him to stop doing that and think about what I need and not just him.

[Isabelles_mommy]

I agree with the other posts, tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't try to help you, then your getting a BOB. 

maybe that will do the trick?

[Supervane]

Start asking him for money and set a rate... Jk

Maybe next time he asks for sex say you don't feel like it and if he asks why say that when you asked he said no same thing

[sweetieiv]

I went throught that for many years. Sex once a month and only when he wanted it. I was beginning to hate him. I told him that i was unhappy and that i had many thoughts of cheating on him. He has changed a lot in a very romantic and caring way. If you ever want to talk feel free to pm me.

[Anonymous]

That must hurt a lot,sheesh. I'm sorry,ask him to watch some porn with you perhaps? My husband also doen't seem to care if I get off or not,I know how you feel.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting lovebeingmrs:

And how old is he?

He's 42.

[thoughtaboutit]

WHAT?  when did all this start? i mean, has it always been like this?  you need to get to the bottom of what's going on with him.  it could be a medical problem if he's a minute man.  you deserve better.  don't give him any and see how he responds to that.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting Isabelles_mommy:

I agree with the other posts, tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't try to help you, then your getting a BOB. 

maybe that will do the trick?

What's a BOB?

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting Anonymous:

That must hurt a lot,sheesh. I'm sorry,ask him to watch some porn with you perhaps? My husband also doen't seem to care if I get off or not,I know how you feel.

I don't like porn and I don't want my dh to get himself aroused watching some naked female(s) he doesn't know, when he doesn't do that with me, his wife.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting thoughtaboutit:

WHAT?  when did all this start? i mean, has it always been like this?  you need to get to the bottom of what's going on with him.  it could be a medical problem if he's a minute man.  you deserve better.  don't give him any and see how he responds to that.

We've been together and married for 2 years. It kinda has been like this the whole time.

Seriously, if I don't give him any, he's not going to care.

[Isabelles_mommy]

Battery Operated Boyfriend aka a sex toy.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Isabelles_mommy:

I agree with the other posts, tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't try to help you, then your getting a BOB. 

maybe that will do the trick?

What's a BOB?