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Sometimes I feel like...

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An unpaid prostitute! When my dh and I have sex, which is extremely rare, if I don't get undressed fast enough he tells me that he's gonna loose it. Also, he does his business and then gets up and leaves to go to the living room. I rarely get anything out of it. I'm just so pissed and frustrated, sexually and otherwise! We had sex twice last month. I am so horney and ask him for sex, but he says no. We don't even sleep in the same bed/room (his choice not mine)!

Give me some ideas to get him to stop doing that and think about what I need and not just him.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:49 AM
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Isabelles_mommy
by Bronze Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:23 AM

I agree with the other posts, tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't try to help you, then your getting a BOB. 

maybe that will do the trick?

Supervane
by Ruby Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:26 AM
Start asking him for money and set a rate... Jk

Maybe next time he asks for sex say you don't feel like it and if he asks why say that when you asked he said no same thing
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sweetieiv
by Ruby Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:36 AM
I went throught that for many years. Sex once a month and only when he wanted it. I was beginning to hate him. I told him that i was unhappy and that i had many thoughts of cheating on him. He has changed a lot in a very romantic and caring way. If you ever want to talk feel free to pm me.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:37 AM

That must hurt a lot,sheesh. I'm sorry,ask him to watch some porn with you perhaps? My husband also doen't seem to care if I get off or not,I know how you feel.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:39 AM
Quoting lovebeingmrs:

And how old is he?


He's 42.
thoughtaboutit
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:41 AM

WHAT?  when did all this start? i mean, has it always been like this?  you need to get to the bottom of what's going on with him.  it could be a medical problem if he's a minute man.  you deserve better.  don't give him any and see how he responds to that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:41 AM
Quoting Isabelles_mommy:

I agree with the other posts, tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't try to help you, then your getting a BOB. 

maybe that will do the trick?



What's a BOB?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:45 AM
Quoting Anonymous:

That must hurt a lot,sheesh. I'm sorry,ask him to watch some porn with you perhaps? My husband also doen't seem to care if I get off or not,I know how you feel.



I don't like porn and I don't want my dh to get himself aroused watching some naked female(s) he doesn't know, when he doesn't do that with me, his wife.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2012 at 5:48 AM
Quoting thoughtaboutit:

WHAT?  when did all this start? i mean, has it always been like this?  you need to get to the bottom of what's going on with him.  it could be a medical problem if he's a minute man.  you deserve better.  don't give him any and see how he responds to that.



We've been together and married for 2 years. It kinda has been like this the whole time.

Seriously, if I don't give him any, he's not going to care.
Isabelles_mommy
by Bronze Member on Jul. 2, 2012 at 6:09 AM

Battery Operated Boyfriend aka a sex toy.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Isabelles_mommy:

I agree with the other posts, tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't try to help you, then your getting a BOB. 

maybe that will do the trick?



What's a BOB?


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