Woman eat after the man does.

[Anonymous]

This is how I live. DH DS2 and DS3 eat first, Myself, DD1 and DD4 and my grand daughter wait until they are finshed and not wanting more and we eat what they didnt (not off their plates).

DH also is not asked to do anything but sit and enjoy his night along with our DSs.

our 19 year daughter never finished high school since she doesnt not need a career and is a house wife since she had a baby at 16, DH doesnt believe woman belong in the work force only in the home with the children so that worked out fine.

I cant not ask for sex nor can I say no, that would be wrong of me in my DH eyes.

That is my confession

EDIT:

Questions:

I am now 39 years old.

All up i have 7 children I have a 21yDS, 19yDD, 17DD, 15DD 14DS, 10DS, 10DD and 2 granddaughter.

My 17year old and 15 year old have chosen a different life. both chosing to live with my sister who has also chosen a different life.

My DS1 has moved out and married and keeps with our ways.

People forget i was raised like this and my DH married into this, I chose this and I am not abused.

I watch Tv, I use CM, Im allowed to leave the house whenever i like and my children are free to choose any life they like, but if it envovles something we dont like and they still want to continue doing it then they are not apart of ours lives. Such as my DD2 and 3.

[Anonymous]

[meglennox]

Is this how you were raised?

Quoting Anonymous:

married at 17 but housewife since 16

Quoting meglennox:

How far did you get in school?

[sketchmonster]

That would drive me absolutely batty. I have a huge need to be totally equal to my SO. I always let men know beforehand that if they're looking for someone to cook, clean, wait on them hand and foot, and supply endless sandwiches we will not work out by any stretch of the imagination.
Kudos to you for being okay with that, though. Out of curiosity why does your family do this? Is it cultural? If so, which one?

[Ultra_]

Lol, I don't even believe this.

[KitT.Kat]

LMAO, your life sucks.

[Anonymous]

Did you know that by you saying that you CANT NOT you are actually saying that you can? And by Saying that she doesn't not means she does. Can't= can not and doesn't= does not. Ok glad i got that off my chest.

[meglennox]

I wasnt the only one who noticed :)

Quoting Anonymous:

Did you know that by you saying that you CANT NOT you are actually saying that you can? And by Saying that she doesn't not means she does. Can't= can not and doesn't= does not. Ok glad i got that off my chest.

[mommasbabies77]

Quoting Ultra_:

Lol, I don't even believe this.

[champagne_rose]

 

Quoting Ultra_:

Lol, I don't even believe this.

 I would hope it's not true. People are crazy though. If it's true then ...

[Healthystart30]

I feel sad for your daughters, that you and your husband think her brothers are better/more important then they are :( I hope that when they grow up they will realize that they are just as important as a guy! Shame on you for letting your husband brainwash your daughters, you are supposed to be their advocate, not the one holding them down!