This is how I live. DH DS2 and DS3 eat first, Myself, DD1 and DD4 and my grand daughter wait until they are finshed and not wanting more and we eat what they didnt (not off their plates).
DH also is not asked to do anything but sit and enjoy his night along with our DSs.
our 19 year daughter never finished high school since she doesnt not need a career and is a house wife since she had a baby at 16, DH doesnt believe woman belong in the work force only in the home with the children so that worked out fine.
I cant not ask for sex nor can I say no, that would be wrong of me in my DH eyes.
That is my confession
I am now 39 years old.
All up i have 7 children I have a 21yDS, 19yDD, 17DD, 15DD 14DS, 10DS, 10DD and 2 granddaughter.
My 17year old and 15 year old have chosen a different life. both chosing to live with my sister who has also chosen a different life.
My DS1 has moved out and married and keeps with our ways.
People forget i was raised like this and my DH married into this, I chose this and I am not abused.
I watch Tv, I use CM, Im allowed to leave the house whenever i like and my children are free to choose any life they like, but if it envovles something we dont like and they still want to continue doing it then they are not apart of ours lives. Such as my DD2 and 3.