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Would you let your 16 year old daughters boyfriend to stay overnight?

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 My 16 year old asked if her boyfriend of 2 years could stay overnight this weekend.  She is on bc and they use condoms.  My husband says yes and I say I'm not sure.  Anyone else been through this?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:05 AM
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alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:06 AM
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I don't see the big deal.

armywife0424
by Silver Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:07 AM
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Ummn NO! They are teenagers I dont care if they are using bc. Just because they are being careful doesn't mean they should be given adult privileges.
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LexRi0709
by on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:07 AM


Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

I don't see the big deal.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:07 AM
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My mom always let my boyfriends will I do it with my daughter probably not I am soo overprotective of my kids, I never got pregnant at that age I did turn up pregnant at 21 though. I was raised with no rules whatsoever. I may let him spend the night if it is another room but I don't know if I could sleep knowing they are snuggled up and probably doing the deed.

Pink_Sunshine
by on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:07 AM
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Hell no. This shouldn't even be a thought in your mind. 

mishamama
by Platinum Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:08 AM
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If hell froze over...
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:08 AM
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yea no one will see the big deal until their daughter is pregnant. Then it would be a big deal.

QueenBof6
by Platinum Member on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:08 AM
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Fuck no. ;-)
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arixanismom
by on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:09 AM
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Yeah but she will sleep in the room with me :)
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ReidsNana
by on Jul. 3, 2012 at 9:09 AM
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I have been through it....all 3 of my children are now adults. We made the mistake of letting our oldest son do this when he was 17. When the other 2 were older they would throw that up when we told them no.

Having sleepovers just invites a whole slew of issues. If I had it to do over again, the answer would be a resounding, NO!!!
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