I feel disrespected by my 3yo ss, am I over reacting?
Any who for reason to long to write about and nothing to do with this actual post ss has only been apart of our lives for the past 6 months. Ss is 3 years old and I feel like he is being disrespectful towards me. Dh thinks I'm being to sensitive and that his son is just "silly" can you tell me if I am being to sensitive or if he is trying me to see what he can get away with?
Here are some examples
First he didn't call me by my name until recently. I was "hey" or "you" finally I addressed this with dh, and he had a talk with him and now he calls me by name ONLY when dh is around.
Second, if we are all sitting down watching movies he'll kick me so I can get away from his dad cover his eyes and say "i don't want to see you"
Third, he's told me he doesn't like me, he won't love me, he only loves his father
Also, anytime I ask him to do something I'm totally ignored. Rather its asking him to scoot over so I can pass or pick up his toys I'm ignored
Than, one day me and dh were having a heated discussion. Ss walks into our room while were still talking. I express to dh that I will not finish this talk with his son in the room. He (of course being a man) has to have the last word BUT as soon as he's finished and walking out the room ss screams out to me "yea" &.follows his dad out the room. His dad did tell him "hey you don't say that" but the fact is that he felt he could.
And last, I bf my ds, so when ss is here I bf in the room. Well he.walks into the room. I quickly cover myself and ask him nicely to leave. He (being a.kid) ask "why" I tell him because I'm feeding his brother he than comes closer. I ask him again to leave, he says no. when he finally decides to levee he walks out the room but not before saying "I'm leaving but not because you said so"
Am I being sensitive? Is he actually disrespecting me purposely? Is he just being a 3yo?