I am doing this under anon cause I have recently learned that BM might be on here. Awhile back she accuse my man of not paying CS and that is why the grandparents wouldn't let him see the kids. CS has nothing to do with visitation rights. He told her he was paying CS and the grandparents were keeping him away from the kids so he would not develop a bond and they were away he would tell the kids the truth. Of course she is the right one because she said she did not have to pay CS so that is why he didn't have to pay CS. She doesn't have to pay CS because she is on disability.
Then she went on telling him how she told the kids the truth blah blah blah. Her truth included that he did not want his kids, did not want to se his kids and the reason she kept them from him was because I beat on them and he use to sit on them, starve them and eat food in front of them. The younger kids actually told a counselor that is why they did not want to be with their dad. That their mom told them their dad sat on them and would starve them but they were too young too remember.
The truth is she took the kids against their court order and he could not find his kids until a couple years later when the older kids got in trouble with the law and the courts sent him a subpoena to court. He never hurt his kids. He is a real softy and I never beat the kid and I am pretty sure the women on CM can tell the rest is BS.
Now she wants him tp pay for their divorce so she can get married and try to get the kids back. He promised she would let him see every now and then. Um... yeah that is not gonna happen because she is a lying manipulative bitch. Besides she lost her kids because she is a shitty parent. She wants him to use his next tax return that he does not claim their kids on to pay for a trip to walt disney world for her and the kids... Yeah that isn't happening either. This bitch is obviously delusional.
We plan to use the taxreturn to pay bills in advance and if we can a down payment on a cheap home. There are a lot of them around here.
She has decided to tell people my man won't give her a divorce because he does not want to see her happy and is trying to get back with her. And he doesn't want to pay for his kids to have a great vacation next year because he doesn't care about them.
Ok my vent is over. I need to relax. Don't need to go to an OB appointment pissed off.