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Who created the standards *edit*

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:15 AM
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on if someone is pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, ugly, average, ect?

What defines beauty? Why must there be a standard?

Who's right is it to decide what equals what?

I do not get it. I'm talking physically, not personality.

I've seen some really ugly people based off personality.

Where the hell did these rules, standards, whatever come from?

I gurantee i am ugly to most (based off looks).



*edit*

Im not asking what is YOUR definition or standards, BUT WHERE did these definitions or standards come from?

Were they created and changed over time by people? A certain group?

Are they naturally built in us?
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champagne_rose
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:18 AM
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BUMP!

eve210
by Gold Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:20 AM
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Everyone's definition of beauty is different which is why I don't understand the point of "rate me" posts.
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Mom2Addison12
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:20 AM

according to women on here, i am but ugly.

mstkn.identity
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:21 AM
I dont understand the rate me posts either.

Im not even sure my post makes sense. Im tired but cant sleep. Lol



Quoting eve210:

Everyone's definition of beauty is different which is why I don't understand the point of "rate me" posts.
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19bubbles91
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:24 AM

Pic of me above

Iv been told I'm ugly
Beautiful
Cute
That I need to wear a bag on my head (some mean bitch)
But I brush it off I know I'm beautiful in mt own eyes and that's all that matters
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mstkn.identity
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:24 AM
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If you are who i think you are, which i mean if I am remembering you correctly, no offense but your personality has been ugly and rude on here a lot.

*im saying your personality not looks btw*

(not saying mine hasnt ever been on here)


Quoting Mom2Addison12:

according to women on here, i am but ugly.

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mstkn.identity
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:25 AM
Do you have pink in your hair?

Quoting 19bubbles91:

Pic of me above

Iv been told I'm ugly
Beautiful
Cute
That I need to wear a bag on my head (some mean bitch)
But I brush it off I know I'm beautiful in mt own eyes and that's all that matters
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Mom2Addison12
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:25 AM

on here in this group, yes......my personality is ugly.

but they have told me that my looks were ugly as well, and i shouldn't show my face.

Quoting mstkn.identity:

If you are who i think you are, which i mean if I am remembering you correctly, no offense but your personality has been ugly and rude on here a lot.

*im saying your personality not looks btw*

(not saying mine hasnt ever been on here)


Quoting Mom2Addison12:

according to women on here, i am but ugly.


Tressakim
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:25 AM
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It usually comes from the upper class, rich, famous.  Even a long time ago, everyone tried to look like the royals, or the women in the paintings, the statues, etc.  Now we have ugly skeletal celebrities.  So.....

Some of it is from instincts though, who would be the better breeder and so on.  And even babies prefer a symmetrical face.  I'm lucky to have a timeless hourglass figure and a very nice face, natural beauty blah blah blah, so everyone except skinny loving freaks finds me attractive, but I definitely wouldn't compare in the fake world.

mommysangelface
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 5:25 AM
Im ugly in looks. And,i know my personality can be ugly if pushed
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