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My kids live with my mom because my bf don't want them *eta

Anonymous
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He's a good guy, he really is but he's just not a kid kinda person. I see my kids,evedyday and I give my mom money for having them. Besides, my kids,LOVE their grammy. They almost never want to spend the night with me.

**eta

This is a TEMP living arrangment until I figure something out butFOR NOW, this is what works best. And contrary to popular belief...I did NOT pawn off my kids. I'm 100% financially responsible for them and I see them on a daily basis at MY house . They just don't want to spend the night. Why should I force them??

And for those who want to.know...
My boys are 4 & 6, I'm 27... their dad is deceased since '09.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:07 AM
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BEXi
by BEXi on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM

Since you care about the dick more, then your children are better off.

Quoting Anonymous:

It's not ideal but it's what works best


Quoting BEXi:

How do you justify putting your boyfriend ahead of your own children??



kgcrazy
by Bronze Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM

no offense but that's horrible. Your kids come before your bf, they can always visit their mothers

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM
My mom did this too..so sad
Bigmetalchicken
by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM
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Well, at least in this scenario of you showing your children that a penis is more important than them,  they are n ot being raped and mistreated by him. So I guess that is one way you can pretend you are doing what is best for them.

Ctink8189
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM
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When he leaves you..you will see what an idiot you were
Mommy2my2Girls
by Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM

wow i just don't understand mom's these days!!!!! i would never put a man infornt of my kids maybe you don't deserve them then!!!!

Mom2theboy1994
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM
No, they just don't want to spend the night at my place.


Quoting LaughCryLive:

Is it any wonder your kids don't want to be around you? My mom has always put a man before her kids.

Matriarch87
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:11 AM
Hahahaha!

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skittlebeans88
by Gold Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:12 AM
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Wow you're such a great parent..
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