I am a single mom of 2 kids. We live with my parents till I am back on my feet, and it works for us, there aren't many issues. I should also add that I am in my late 20s. I have been seeing this guy since February, and very recently we had sex (like a month ago) for the first time. I don't stay the night with him because I have to be home with my kids, we have dates 2-3 times a month and texted/call eachother every day. We do something with the kids my kids every weekend. Here is the problem, he wants me to spend the night with him or him speed the night here. He understands why I won't stay with him, my parents have already done so much for me I can't ask them to watch them over night. I don't know how my parents would feel about him speeding the night here, I'm not very comfortable asking them if it would be ok. I have already asked so much of them already I feel that would be too much to ask. I just don't know how to explain that to him when I really would like to have him spend the night with me.
What would you do?
*ETA* I just found out that my ex has been released from prison so I am not to worried about this anymore, got to do what I can to protect my kids from him (ex). Thank goodness the guy I'm seeing understands everything, I'm just going to keep things the way they are right now so as to keep the drama to a minimum.