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My brother is deceased.. ask me anything

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:30 PM
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wubbunny420
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:11 AM

My brother died feburary 18th, he was 20 and had a 7 mo old dd. I still have days when i cant stop crying, does that ever stop?

Allebas
by Gold Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:12 AM

Drunk drivers seriously PISS me off!!!!!! I know a gal who lost her DD to a drunk driver!!!! Her DD was killed, another gal that was in her car and a 3rd gal was critically injured, and still has medical problems from the crash!!! The drunk driver blew thru a stop sign and t-boned the other car killing the 2 gals instantly. The drunk driver was only 20!! He refused to tell the Police 'who' supplied the booze to him and his passenger. And of course, the drunks were not hurt at all!! The drunk driver got a whopping 2 years in prison for taking the lives of 2 ppl and seriously injuring a 3rd person!!!! SOOOO, SOOOO WRONG!!!!!! 2 years is NOWHERE NEAR enough time for taking ppl's lives!!!!!!!  :  (  The gal I know donated the car her DD was driving in to the Sheriff's Dept. They park it outside High Schools, at fairs etc. with her daughter's story on a big board, so that ppl can SEE what drunk driving can and does do every day!!! Her car was so smashed up, you cannot even tell what make it was!! It doesn't even look like anyone survived the crash!! They even had to use the jaws of life to get them out!!! SO SAD!!!  :  (

Quoting .Laura10.:

Mine is too. He and my husband were killed by drunk drivers. (Separate instances that were about a year apart) What happened? How long has it been?


BUFFIE.the.BODY
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:13 AM
Same as my brother. He had one b4 he past and I figured out his password. People write on his wall on his birthdays, the day he past and just randomly just talk :)

Quoting orrwhat87:

Thats nice!

I made a facebook page for my brother and on his birthday and the day he died people write on his wall...

Sometimes people randomly write things as well




Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Yeah, we have get togethers every year and on his birthday we throw HUG parties. Our birthdays are in the same month, mine in the beginning & his towards the end (we're a year apart)





Quoting orrwhat87:

Soo sorry!



I understand the pain, my baby brother has passed as well...



Did you do anything special to honor him?
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wubbunny420
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:13 AM

I'm sorry for your loss, my brothers 21st bday would have been the 15th and his dd's 1 yr on the 18th. his gf is having his dd's birthday party on his birthday to celebrate his life and hers. 

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

He was 19 he got shot by his bbf and he has two little boys (my nephews)

Age 5 and 3 :)


Quoting wubbunny420:

So is mine, how did it happen? how old was he? did he have any kids?


                                            


 

BUFFIE.the.BODY
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:18 AM
I'm sorry.

And I really don't cry, just more of thinking why he's gone and why it happened. I always have dreams of him so I'm fine cause I always get to see him. One time he came to me and told me how he feels and that he loves me :.) <---happy tears


Quoting wubbunny420:

My brother died feburary 18th, he was 20 and had a 7 mo old dd. I still have days when i cant stop crying, does that ever stop?

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BUFFIE.the.BODY
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:23 AM
Uha.. I hate when things doesn't get solved when they should!

Quoting Anonymous:

Initially he lied, when we couldn't find my brother we started calling his phone his friend answered his phone. We called 911 and the dispatcher called the friend. We thought the friend was oblivious until we got the recording of the call with the dispatcher. When asked by my mom the friends mom stepped in and wouldn't let him answer. Eventhough this kid was involved he was off the hook because his mom worked for the police station and got her kid off.




Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

OMGOODNESS. He didn't do a thing? Do you all see him or ever asked why?





Quoting Anonymous:

So sad people are so evil, my brothers"friend" watched him die and didn't do anything.








Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

He got shot in the head by his Bestfriend over some expensive glasses that his bff wanted to buy from him. He was my only brother. We we're a year apart









Quoting Anonymous:

So is mine, what happened?


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by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:25 AM
God will handle justice better than this world would have anyway. Doesn't make me miss him less. He would have been 24


Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Uha.. I hate when things doesn't get solved when they should!



Quoting Anonymous:

Initially he lied, when we couldn't find my brother we started calling his phone his friend answered his phone. We called 911 and the dispatcher called the friend. We thought the friend was oblivious until we got the recording of the call with the dispatcher. When asked by my mom the friends mom stepped in and wouldn't let him answer. Eventhough this kid was involved he was off the hook because his mom worked for the police station and got her kid off.






Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

OMGOODNESS. He didn't do a thing? Do you all see him or ever asked why?







Quoting Anonymous:

So sad people are so evil, my brothers"friend" watched him die and didn't do anything.










Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

He got shot in the head by his Bestfriend over some expensive glasses that his bff wanted to buy from him. He was my only brother. We we're a year apart











Quoting Anonymous:

So is mine, what happened?



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:27 AM
Its been 5 years, the shock has mostly subsided but I still cry. He was the baby of the family and we were always together.


Quoting wubbunny420:

I'm sorry for your loss, my brothers 21st bday would have been the 15th and his dd's 1 yr on the 18th. his gf is having his dd's birthday party on his birthday to celebrate his life and hers. 

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

He was 19 he got shot by his bbf and he has two little boys (my nephews)



Age 5 and 3 :)




Quoting wubbunny420:

So is mine, how did it happen? how old was he? did he have any kids?



wubbunny420
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:28 AM

my brothers friends were with him when he ODed and insted of calling 911 they shoved more pills in his mouth thinking they would help and when he died they cleared out everything valuable and left him there for over a day before he was found. I'm so angry about it, both at him and his "friends". I just dont know how to get over this. Please tell me in time it gets better?

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

I'm sorry.

And I really don't cry, just more of thinking why he's gone and why it happened. I always have dreams of him so I'm fine cause I always get to see him. One time he came to me and told me how he feels and that he loves me :.) <---happy tears


Quoting wubbunny420:

My brother died feburary 18th, he was 20 and had a 7 mo old dd. I still have days when i cant stop crying, does that ever stop?


                                            


 

wubbunny420
by on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:31 AM

Is there a group on cm for people that have lost siblings?


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