So I hope I dont offend anyone this is just my own view!
I have a girl on my facebook who honestly I didnt even know had a child. She only posts pictures of herself going out and partying and has never posted anything about her son. A few times ive seen posts where shes talking about being exhausted from partying and one of her family members will call her out for not being home with her son. She always says she loves her son and she only goes out at night cause she doesnt need to just watch him sleep. Whatever its her life I dont really care that much.
But she just posted today about getting her getting her new tattoo. She finally posted a picture and its a very badly done tattoo, and its just her sons name and birthdate, and honestly I wouldnt have given it a second thought except for the caption on the photo.
"told yall im a good mother and I love my son, got his name tatted on me today thats true love"
I was like what? Just because you have your sons name tattooed on your body doesnt mean your a good mother or prove that you love your son. I was just blown away. Then she got mad when again, some of her family members called her out for never being around her son, and even her mom got on there and told her if she really loved her son she would come home and spend time with him.
I just dont get it. A tattoo does not equal love, and it doesnt make up for never spending time with your child.