My mom says I'm a spoiled brat because SO does all the outside work, weeding, gardening flowers, tomatoes, cutting grass, etc. I am not an outdoor girl, I hate bugs and getting dirty and sweating in the heat. My SO has never asked me to do any of it, he knows I don't like that. I do all the housework, cooking, cleaning laundry, etc and it works for us! I don't think it makes me a spoiled brat, I just don't like outside work. Its not for me!