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With all the hate in the sex offender post.....ETA

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I started thinking....I was 14 and with a 21 year old. My parents didn't turn him in when they found out, but I never saw him again. He was a pot head loser. But now,10 years later, he is married and has two little girls. If you were his wife, would you wanna know?  I'm almost positive she doesn't know because come to find out, he was cheating on her with me.......

I've posted about this on here before. Because she's on cafemom.

ETA: I'm not gonna tell her. not asking if I should tell her. Just giving you all a different point of view....I find it amusing that all the women saying 'ew, disgusting..'have no idea that it could easily be their husband and they wouldn't even know...

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:31 PM
Replies (11-20):
NDADanceMom
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:39 PM

 leave it alone.  I would think you were nuts if I was the wife.  Old news. 

AnastasiaKorsh
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:41 PM
Yes! I'd tell her he's a cheater and a loser who sleeps with chicken.
TairyHesticle
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:41 PM
I was with a 28 yr old when I was 15. Gross I know. No one ever knew about it. But I think as a wife I would wanna know if my husband slept with underage girls. I wouldn't tell her though.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:41 PM

I agree.  OP, if I were you, I wouldn't tell her.  But she should know.  I'd want to know if my DH was a pedophile.  A 21-year-old who is sexually active with a 14-year-old is a pedophile.

Quoting annas_momma:

I wouldn't tell her myself, but she does have a right to know that not only did he cheat on her, but that he also has a thing for young girls.


cLanief
by Ruby Member on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:42 PM
nope. I dont care about past consensual relationships. My xbf/friend is technically a sex offender. didnt surprise me when he finally got parents who didnt like it and pressed charges. I met him at 15 and he was 21 dating my friend.


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting cLanief:

why the fuck would you tell her? That's fucking stupid.



I dated guys much older than me as a teenager. .. So? Sheeeesh

I didn't say I was going to tell her.

I said,, would you wanna know?


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ekralevich
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:42 PM

I see what your saying.  If I was the wife I would want to know.  It's not normal for a 21 year old to want to have sex with a 14 year old.  For all you know he is a child sex offender.  Your parents did you a disservice by not reporting him.

ekralevich
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:44 PM

What if he's done it to younger and younger kids?  

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:54 PM


Quoting Gealach:

Where they married at the time?

No, married about 6 months later

alwayskk
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:57 PM
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Yeah. It's totally possible that any one of my boyfriends or my ex husband could have done something I didn't know about. However, if I found out about it, I wouldn't neccessarily stick around.
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Gealach
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 11:57 PM
Then no, I don't think I'd want to know.

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Gealach:

Where they married at the time?

No, married about 6 months later

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