My husband and I believe marriage is like a full time job . Always working at it , making improvements and growing with it . We never use the word DIVORCE that is not an option for us . For that we know no matter what comes up we will always work through it . Not saying our marriage is perfect by any means but it does mean we wont give up on it either . Of course we disagree and have our arguments , but if you don't have those and everything was 'PERFECT" wouldn't your marriage be boring ? We don't like everything the other does for example I don't like golf ..no biggie we should have diff/interest.