I am 27 and my bf is 43. His oldest child is 25 and his youngest is 16. He has 7 grandchildren. This wasn't planned but it just happened. His older daughters are making remarks like that baby will have nieces and nephews older than it and that their dad is crazy and we should terminate or give it up for adoption. This is my 2nd child and his 5th. I am happy and so is he. Why can't they be happy for us? How would you feel if you had a new sibling in your 20s? I know it's weird but they don't need to be mean.