My husband and I have been together for five years, and married for four. We just had our first child together on June 5th this year and his mother, whom I do not get along with, hasn't seen him. Not only has she not made an effort to come see her grandson, but she hasn't called to ask about him, or even send a text asking how he is or what he looks like. Am I supposed to take the initative and shove him in her face, or should I stick to myself? In reality, it's HER loss because my son is simply amazing and is showered with love by others. However, it just seems like his family isn't that crazy over my son as they are with my husband's first son with his ex gf. Maybe I'm being stupid, but there is definitely something off about it all... In my opinion.