In your relationship who comes first your Husband/SO or you kids? And why?
Also who does you Husband/SO put first, do you know why?
I think we should put our Husbands first, and that they should put us first. I don't think by puttin Hubby first it means my kids are less important to me, or that I don't care for their needs. It means that my Husband and I are one and I don't think healthy relationships can exist when you don't care for yourself and that includes the one you have chosen to unite with.
I know there comes a time when women have to choose their kids over their Husband/SO. I'm not talking about that type of situation. I think Men have the responsibilty to first care for their women, and if they fail, they can expect her to do all types of things to protect hrself and children.