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Emotional/verbal abuse

Posted by Anonymous

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When I was married my husband used to yell at me and tell me I was not seeing or hearing what I was. Every year whole month of my birthday he would tell me enjoy this one its your last. You wont live to be 30...then you wont live to be 35...then you wont live to see the kids graduate. I left that sorry bastard 8 years ago and never looked back and burried all that stuff and been happy till this week. All I hear in my mind is him yelling those things at me. My birthday is in 2 weeks and Im afraid Im really going to die. I dont have any anxiety meds or a therapist to go to or a doctor. I want to go to sleep until august. I cant even pray I try but I cant.

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:23 AM

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Sassy762

CAFE SASSY on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:27 AM

Beat cha SB72, lol

Sassy762

CAFE SASSY on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:28 AM

That ass was just controlling you. You are away from him now so live your life and forget about him. I would suggest seeing a therapist also.....GL

etsmom

Platinum Member on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:30 AM

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I am sorry that you are feeling this way What makes you think that you are going to die before your birthday? Don't give his words (and they are JUST words) anymore power. He is out of your life. Take a deep breath and remember life happens and we have no control. Live the life you have today and be greatful for all that you already have.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:35 AM

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Quoting Sassy762:

Beat cha SB72, lol

Sassy762

CAFE SASSY on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:36 AM

Ignore this......I responded to your post in another reply

Quoting Anonymous:

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Quoting Sassy762:

Beat cha SB72, lol

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:36 AM

I guess I think that because when you hear something for so long you believe it and thats what I heard for so long

Quoting etsmom:

I am sorry that you are feeling this way What makes you think that you are going to die before your birthday? Don't give his words (and they are JUST words) anymore power. He is out of your life. Take a deep breath and remember life happens and we have no control. Live the life you have today and be greatful for all that you already have.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:37 AM

Yea I saw your other reply. Thank you

Quoting Sassy762:

Ignore this......I responded to your post in another reply
Quoting Anonymous:

???
Quoting Sassy762:

Beat cha SB72, lol

etsmom

Platinum Member on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:38 AM

I can understand that. It's time you start hearing something different from yourself. Good luck. He only has as much power as you allow him to have.

Quoting Anonymous:

I guess I think that because when you hear something for so long you believe it and thats what I heard for so long
Quoting etsmom:

I am sorry that you are feeling this way What makes you think that you are going to die before your birthday? Don't give his words (and they are JUST words) anymore power. He is out of your life. Take a deep breath and remember life happens and we have no control. Live the life you have today and be greatful for all that you already have.

Speak Softly and Sweetly; Later You May Have To Eat Your Own Words

thetrollcat

Meow on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:39 AM

eight yeaqrs later and still alive? I wouldnt worry about it, chances are he has moved on in life.

stickyfingers

Platinum Member on Jul. 11, 2012 at 1:39 AM

oh man! im sorry! my ex used to tell me that i didnt see what i just sawi even if it was him pushing my son down! i hate him so much and want to beat him in the face! have a great birthday you are FREE hun!! smile all day long!