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Can you take things your children bought w/ their money?

Posted by on Jul. 12, 2012 at 2:59 PM
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Say your child raked leaves all fall and bought him/herself an Ipad or toy they really wanted. Can you take it away from them as punishment later, even if you didn't buy it? 


**I'm bored and in the need of something to do until my Dd wakes up**

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Posted by on Jul. 12, 2012 at 2:59 PM
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Mrs.Miller11
by on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:02 PM
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yes. Those things are a privilege, not a right. Besides, it is a child we are talking about, not an adult. As far as I am concerned, I dont care who bought what, as long as you live in my house, you follow my rules and if you dont, you get punished.

MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:03 PM
Yes.
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Christine0813
by on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:03 PM
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Heck yes!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:04 PM
I have. The way I see it I pay the electric bill (so they can charge), the rent (so they can keep it dry) and groceries (so they have energy to use it). Taking away his stuff is the only way I can get him to listen. He's 14 and has aspergers, adhd, and bipolar. When it's the only punishment that works you do it.
lapcounter
by Queen Mom on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:05 PM
Sure can!
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mamacough
by Platinum Member on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:05 PM

 Sure you can. Your house your rules. :)

LoganTroyMom
by Silver Member on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:05 PM
Quoting Mrs.Miller11:

yes. Those things are a privilege, not a right. Besides, it is a child we are talking about, not an adult. As far as I am concerned, I dont care who bought what, as long as you live in my house, you follow my rules and if you dont, you get punished.



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ButterMeUp
by Butters on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:06 PM

I wouldn't take something that wasn't mine but I would cut off the Wifi and stop letting them charge it at the house. You can't use the thing with out power or Wifi. You ever just been able to look at something but not use it? Its torture. Muahaha. 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:08 PM
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Yeah. That was more along the lines I was thinking lol

Quoting ButterMeUp:

I wouldn't take something that wasn't mine but I would cut off the Wifi and stop letting them charge it at the house. You can't use the thing wither power or Wifi. You ever just been able to look at something but not use it? Its torture. Muahaha. 

ButterMeUp
by Butters on Jul. 12, 2012 at 3:12 PM

BUMP!

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