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im gonna get bashed for this.......

Posted by on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:54 PM
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but i dont consider a woman that doesnt have custody of her child(ren) is NOT a mother in my eyes.i always think shes unfit or doesnt want her kids. Also a woman that puts anything before her kids is a sorry excuse for a woman and/or mother.Women that lay on the couch all day watching tv arent mothers either.how can they call themselves great moms when your house and child is filthy and theres no food for your child and u cant afford your bill(not even attempting to pay them!) i absolutley hate these types of "women". It makes me sick!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:56 PM
I secretly agree with the custody thing. Only if woman lost her child and is not trying to get them back at all.
KYLIEAARONMOMMY
by Platinum Member on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:56 PM
Anybody got some popcorn for this one?
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MZ82
by on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:56 PM
Agree.
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SterlingHeart
by Gold Member on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:57 PM

agree

beeonit
by Catherine on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:57 PM
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Well, she's still a mother, just a shitty one.
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katibug88
by on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:58 PM

 I agree, if protective services takes away your children, 9 times out of 10 you weren't doing your job. If you pawn them off on family or friends or even their father for months at a time you obviously don't want your kids. I would do anything it took to keep my kids with me. NO MATTER WHAT. If a woman loves her children, she will feel the same way.

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devinsmom42
by Silver Member on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:58 PM
Lol that's what I was thinking...like it was going two different ways lol.

Quoting Karenjm:

Your first sentence doesn't make sense.

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MomoLS
by Bronze Member on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:58 PM

Absolutely agree.  When you're a mother you give-up your right to be selfish.  The well-being of your children come first, even if that means giving up your child.

Quoting LaughCryLive:

Good mothers do what is best for their children, even if it means dad gets primary physical custody.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:58 PM
Oh well guess I'm a shit mom because sometimes there are things that will and do come before my kids. Doesn't mean I'm a bad mom, just means i know how to prioritize.
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by Anonymous on Jul. 13, 2012 at 1:58 PM
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So, is a father who doesn't have custody of his children not a father in your opinion?  Or do fathers not count.

This attitude drives me crazy because it means mothers will keep their children just for appearances sake rather than give them the home they deserve which is sometimes with their father.

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