Dh and I hardly ever fight or argue. It pretty much just comes down to each of us knowing when to STFU instead of carrying on. I am not feeling well tonight so I am going to bed before him. I start saying things like, please dont leave cup on coffee table, dont leave beer caps on the counter, etc. He says "dont start telling me all these things to do, youre nagging me!" and i said "we have been married 3 years and you always leave beer caps out" so he says Im nagging again. It irritates the piss out of me but I drop it. I go down to the basement, get the sheets out of the dryer.
Sure enough, when I came back upstairs, he says "Why didnt you ask me to get that for you??"
Seriously??? So I gave him the answer...."You JUST told me to stop nagging you, and you wonder why I didnt ask you to do something right after??"
He didnt reply. I didnt say anything else, nothing else really needed to be saif but seriously...come on dude.