Why has he been sneaking in the word "love" (I.e. "Thank you my love")?
Why has he been reiterating over and over that he has no feelings for me, though he talks to me more than my late husband did?
Why does he call me baby, sweetie, luv (or "love", on "accident")?
At the beginning, he said a sexual relationship is incredibly short-lived, yet, it's been going on for 5 months. And neither of us have any intention of stopping. He told me that he "can't give me up". I can't give him up, either.
When I told him that I was thinking about breaking it off several weeks ago (because I didn't want to get feelings for someone who had none for me), he sounded shocked, and even upset.
The last time we DTD, he looked into my eyes after, and asked what i was thinking - which is not something he has ever done.
And he tickled my feet... He wanted to know if I was ticklish - he asks tons of questions - like he wants to know everything about me.
Why would you want to know everything about someone you had no feelings for? Why would you regularly talk to someone who was just "sex"? Why would he casually mention the L-word, when I've told him that word scares the crap out of me?
He tells me one thing, but he acts another way. Maybe he's just more mature than the other casual relationships I've had (I've only had two, and that was before I got married. This is my first pseudo relationship since I was widowed)... But I don't think so. Thoughts?
Btw, these are only facts. I'm leaving out my opinions. If this is just someone who knows how to carry on a romantic as hell casual relationship, I need to end it, because I don't want to care as much about him as I think I'm capable of doing - especially if it's a casual relationship for him.