See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
My SS has been plucking my last nerve lately. Whining and crying about everything. He will go from *sweet voice* "Suzy can you please let me do this" I tell him no and he flails and whines like he's about to cry and says "but I want toooooo" Every time he starts whining I tell him that I won't listen to that tone of voice and if he doesn't stop it then "so and so".
Well today really did it. His mom dropped him off at our house and said that this weekend he said "that fucking hurt" Well SS told his mom that my son makes him say it. Now I know that is a complete lie. My son is 15 and he will play with SS sometimes. I am always right there with them though because not only do they play rough, but they play in the family room where I am stay most of the time. I have never heard my son use that type of language around me or my SS. Maybe hell has slipped out once or twice but never that word.
Other than a few times when they wrestle around, my DS doesn't talk to SS much. He stays in his room alot and SS isn't allowed up there. I highly doubt he would take the time to make a 5 year old cuss.
So today I was doing my hair in the bathroom and SS and DS were in my bedroom(connected to the bathroom). I wasn't really paying attention but then I heard my son say very sternly "Oh my God T, do NOT say that ever again" so I listened closer and I hear SS say (again i assume) "Fucking hell Caleb!"
I was like WTF and went out there immediately. Talked to SS about it and he said he understands not to say it, etc etc. But what has gotten in to him lately?? His mom obviously told him not to say those words, my son told him not to say it and he obviously knew it was a bad word.
Another think with the lying...today he was shooting a water gun in the house and DH told him to stop. He stopped for about 5 minutes and then started again. DH told him again to stop(and took the gun) SS just kept saying "it wasn't me! Caleb did it, caleb did it!" Caleb was upstairs in his bedroom.
The whining, lying and cussing all the time. It's all just too much, too fast. He was a sweet boy but now he is just rude and disrespectful. I don't know what to do!
Oh and btw, I'm pretty sure he got the cursing from his mom's brother. They lived with him and he curses like a sailor. I'm not pointing fingers but I think that's where he got it.