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SAHMs whose husbands work...

Anonymous
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And you're on PA......what the fuck are you thinking?

The "we can't afford daycare" bullshit is old.

Did you know, most agencies (DSS) will gladly help with the cost of childcare? Why? Well, I assume its so you can go make money and learn to take care of yourself so you can get OFF PA!!!


I think that excuse is just so you can be a lazy sack of shit. And don't give me your "this is what I do all day" garbage....because guess what, I too am a SAHM...but we aren't on PA. My husband & I own a business. At the end of the month, I take care of financial stuff and he does everything else throughout the month. He is a better people person than I, obviously.


So get off your ass, stop making excuses, help your poor husband before he leaves your mooching ass!!!!!










Btw, for the ones with excuses about daycare..check into your local agency about something called FFN. What is it? It stands for family friends neighbors. Why? Well, you can have a family member,friend,or close well trusted neighbor watch your kids! How? They do a background check, if they're cleared...BAM....they can watch your kids & even make some money too!!!!



LMAO. I HONESTLY DONT CARE WHAT ANY OF YOU DO. I JUST LOVE RILING YOU BITCHES UP!!!
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 11:55 AM
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Bigmetalchicken
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:02 PM
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I read your title, and thought to myself, "How can you be a SAHM if your husband does not work? How do you pay your bills?"

IMHO, if you are on PA, you are not a SAHM, you are unemployed.  Being a SAHP is a lifestyle choice that you only have the luxury of making if your family is able to live comfortably on one salary. 

JTROX
by Silver Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:03 PM

If you  can't get childcare get a job on an opposite shift from your spouse/so.  If you can stay at home, without PA.  Do it.  I think it is good for the family, but its a priviledge not a right.  

atyou
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:03 PM
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Cool story.




Dude....my neighbor's dog smells like a dead squirrel. =/
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Mommy_Jenx3
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:03 PM
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I'm not on PA, so it doesn't apply to me. But geez, people get so easily worked up on here with people they do not know. *shrugs* I don't stress myself out with others lives.
windsails
by Bronze Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:04 PM

you sound a little resentful maybe? i don't know that for sure, maybe just aggrivated at lazy-ass women? for some, stayng at home does SAVE them money, and i suppose some are just SOOOO poor that recieving pa along with NOT working is still less expensive in the long run, see...if they go to work, then get daycare assistance, 9 times out of 10, they are still poor enough to qualify for other forms of pa....it's a vicious cycle...

alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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So it's okay for them to except help from the state to pay for daycare but NOT for them to be on PA? That makes a whole lot of sense!

zianneaaliyah
by 4ever LMFAO on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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Isn't daycare assistance still a form of PA?  

thetrollcat
by Meow on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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LOL you are SAHM because you are not a people person which is pretty much stating you don't play well with others and telling people to get a job LMAO

This was funny :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:05 PM
Fuck that horse!


Quoting SpnFulOfSugar:


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:05 PM
What kind of business do you own?
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