If your teen was told this... EDIT for clarification
is her last chance to have a child, how would you feel? She's 18, married, with one child already. If she doesn't, then she can never have another one.
Edit: i'm not asking if you would "allow" her. I know she's an adult and it's her choice. But would you support her decision to do so?
I put other.
it would all depend.
Yes she may be married , but that does not mean anything.
It would all depend on how she was as a parent..is she a good mom?
Does she make good responsible choices ?
Could she afford another one at this moment ?
If all of those questions were a yes , they i would support her.
Quoting Two_Hearts:I put other.
it would all depend.
Yes she may be married , but that does not mean anything.
It would all depend on how she was as a parent..is she a good mom?
Does she make good responsible choices ?
Could she afford another one at this moment ?
If all of those questions were a yes , they i would support her.
If she was 18 and married and already had a child and was a good mom and could afford to support another child and she wanted one then yes.
I had my second child when I was 20 and my first at 18. It was not an ideal time to have a child the first time but I knew I wanted them close in age and it was the best decision to have them both. We can financially support them and I think we do a pretty good job being the best parents we can.
I probably wouldn't encourage her. There is always adoption later on when she is ready for another.
Personally, I would feel a little like a failure if my daughter ws 18, married and with a child.




- kit_manson
on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:15 PM