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To the women who don't allow porn.....

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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What is it about porn that you find "disgusting"? Unless your husband/fiancé/SO is addicted to it then I don't see what the issue is. Watching porn is pretty normal and it can do amazing things for your sex life if you watch it together.

If the idea of two people having sex (which is what porn is) is disgusting, then surely you and your partner having sex is disgusting?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:40 PM
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wulfeyes05
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:48 PM

The idea of a woman allowing herself to be taped while being screwed by multiple men and then having those DVDs sold is disgusting, to me it's no better than prostitution. To me it's wrong and degrading. I won't watch it, never had the urge to. My husband watched/looked at it when he was a teenager before we were together. I caught him looking at naked women online behind my back and I was extremely upset. I love my husband, but there are some things that I don't want around me. He has never looked at them since. He apologized and said he didn't even know why he was looking at them. He wasn't masturbating or even getting hard, he was just looking. There are somethings that I don't consider porn and there are somethings I do.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:48 PM
And you don't think he does it behind your back?

Quoting 2drnk2tstthsckn:

 We don't think that looking at other people having sex, is something that is acceptable in our marriage. It was one of the boundaries we set down for our marriage, plain as that!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:49 PM

i find it to be ridiculous!!! especially when they say "i don't allow", sounds like control, trust and self-esteem issues!!! i have no desire to control my husband or our marriage, i trust my husband (if he wants to look at porn, go for it, i know he is looking and the only thing he is touching is himself, so still no biggie) and i have great self-esteem! i know i don't look the women in most porn movies or pics, and that is fine with me, i have no desire to have boobs so big that the only career i could have is one on my back, or have back problems from carrying around a JJJ rack! i think a lot of women on CM need to get over their mental and trust issues and realize it is just a pic! 

thetrollcat
by Meow on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:50 PM

Again there are five other porn topics that have already discussed what you are asking but yet you are forcing others to reply here to you directly? Controlling much? And yet you are too lazy to read the replies of the other posts? WHY?

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm asking a question, not enforcing my views. Perhaps you should take note of that rather than just ASSuming.

Quoting thetrollcat:

your opinions to post yet another porn topic is no better than the others. You feel your thoughts and opinions are going to be the almighty you have all the answers to fight in your defense because you cannot accept that some people simply do not take pleasure in porn which are not one single reason for everyone. Seriously, if you have any logic or common sense you would not be so concerned about why some like it why some don't unless of course you really do lack the ability to truely understand porn is not a neccessity, therefore, not everyone watches it.


Quoting Anonymous:

Why not go back to that post then rather than trying to be a smart arse?



Quoting thetrollcat:

You realize this was ALREADY POSTED? Why not pull up the recently posted topic and read the replies ALREADY stated?



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:50 PM
Not all porn is a women being "screwed by multiple men".

Quoting wulfeyes05:

The idea of a woman allowing herself to be taped while being screwed by multiple men and then having those DVDs sold is disgusting, to me it's no better than prostitution. To me it's wrong and degrading. I won't watch it, never had the urge to. My husband watched/looked at it when he was a teenager before we were together. I caught him looking at naked women online behind my back and I was extremely upset. I love my husband, but there are some things that I don't want around me. He has never looked at them since. He apologized and said he didn't even know why he was looking at them. He wasn't masturbating or even getting hard, he was just looking. There are somethings that I don't consider porn and there are somethings I do.

momof4boyz1girl
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:51 PM
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I'm guessing today is National Porn Day. Why do people care so much who watches it and who doesn't? Damn.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:51 PM
Oh. Go stick your head in the oven or something.

Quoting thetrollcat:

Again there are five other porn topics that have already discussed what you are asking but yet you are forcing others to reply here to you directly? Controlling much? And yet you are too lazy to read the replies of the other posts? WHY?


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm asking a question, not enforcing my views. Perhaps you should take note of that rather than just ASSuming.



Quoting thetrollcat:

your opinions to post yet another porn topic is no better than the others. You feel your thoughts and opinions are going to be the almighty you have all the answers to fight in your defense because you cannot accept that some people simply do not take pleasure in porn which are not one single reason for everyone. Seriously, if you have any logic or common sense you would not be so concerned about why some like it why some don't unless of course you really do lack the ability to truely understand porn is not a neccessity, therefore, not everyone watches it.



Quoting Anonymous:

Why not go back to that post then rather than trying to be a smart arse?





Quoting thetrollcat:

You realize this was ALREADY POSTED? Why not pull up the recently posted topic and read the replies ALREADY stated?



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:52 PM

maybe its none of your business

wulfeyes05
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:52 PM
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So you're telling me that one porn star only ever sleeps with one man in her entire career?

Quoting Anonymous:

Not all porn is a women being "screwed by multiple men".

Quoting wulfeyes05:

The idea of a woman allowing herself to be taped while being screwed by multiple men and then having those DVDs sold is disgusting, to me it's no better than prostitution. To me it's wrong and degrading. I won't watch it, never had the urge to. My husband watched/looked at it when he was a teenager before we were together. I caught him looking at naked women online behind my back and I was extremely upset. I love my husband, but there are some things that I don't want around me. He has never looked at them since. He apologized and said he didn't even know why he was looking at them. He wasn't masturbating or even getting hard, he was just looking. There are somethings that I don't consider porn and there are somethings I do.


thetrollcat
by Meow on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:52 PM

Why because you obviously want the porn attention for yourself? you are only getting same damn replies/answers as the other posts, nothing special about yours.

BORING.

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh. Go stick your head in the oven or something.


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