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How soon is too soon??

Posted by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:07 PM
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I was watching A Baby Story....& the lady had 4 children with her previous husband, who had died. Three years later, she is married & getting ready for her 5th baby.

It struck me as a little too soon. I guess I'm thinking if I lost my husband, I can't imagine being pregnant by another man in 2 years.

What are you all's opinions??
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carebear10993
by Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:08 PM

Everyone is defferent but I don't thinnk I could find one in two years either

UgtaBkdnMe
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:08 PM
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I don't think I woud ever remarry.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:08 PM
Every person grieves differently. If she was ready, good for her.

Was her husbands death sudden or expected?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:08 PM
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If you haven't been in her shoes, your opinion of her choice doesn't matter.  Grief is individual.  This is her journey.  No one knows what they'd do unless they have lived it themselves.  Yes, I have.  

alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:09 PM

Everyone is different. Maybe she is the type that can't be alone.

beerabitch69
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:09 PM
Depends on when the person is ready. Everyone is different.
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JadsW
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:09 PM
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Grief is deeply personal.
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cocoroo
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:10 PM
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It isn't my place to say, I have never lost a spouse.
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JessieG978
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:10 PM

Everybody deals with death differently you cant knock anybody if they found love quickly


armywife009
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:10 PM
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Everyone is different. I know people who moved on in a year and people who took several years. You just never know until you have been in that situation.

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